should I text this girl?



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 24 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions




Author Message
 Post subject: should I text this girl?
PostPosted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 7:09 pm 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader

Joined: Fri Jul 29, 2011 3:51 am
Posts: 994
This girl is my lab partner in class. I have been working on her for the past 6 weeks. recently she has been showing ioi's. whenever I joke with her, she pushes me or hits me on the arm.
she is this chinese girl and she is very skinny. yesterday she was wearing these cute pants and I sincerely thought she looked very cute in them, i told her multiple times and I told her "promise you will keep wearing these to every class" she said "i am glad you like them"
I am wondering if i should text her and say "you are so cute, remind me to give you a hug in the next class" or something like that?


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 8:11 pm 
Offline
Dedicated Member
User avatar

Joined: Thu May 26, 2011 3:12 am
Posts: 733
Location: Earth of course
Quote:
i told her multiple times and I told her "promise you will keep wearing these to every class" she said "i am glad you like them"
I am wondering if i should text her and say "you are so cute, remind me to give you a hug in the next class" or something like that?
What did I just read...?
Are you just going to compliment the crap out of her, or do you want to date/lay her?
I see how many posts you have and am still astounded that you think this is the way to a woman's heart; you are doing a perfect job if you're trying to be friends or best friends with her (if that's the goal you're doing perfect, don't change anything) But if you want this to turn into anything more you're walking backwards

Complimenting her multiple times on the same thing*
They see this as annoying, and that you're trying to be the "nice" guy who kisses up to her

"Promise you will" wear these everyday to class*
Bad way to ask a girl to do something, and VERY desperate sounding; the girl will hear "please wear those i really really like them i just can't get enough of you i need you in my life" - that's the WORST message you can send to a girl

text her saying "you are so cute, remind me to give you a hug.."*
same thing as the last one, VERY desperate, even direct game isn't that direct...

I'd be careful to make sure she doesn't think you're gay, not meaning i think you're gay, i'm saying because of you're actions she might be so flirty and open to Just you because she might think you're gay; other than that I can't really help you further

_________________
To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 9:04 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Tue Apr 24, 2012 8:51 pm
Posts: 6
Location: United Kingdom
Do whatever you want to..if you like her then don't be afraid.. go.. theirs no harm of trying.. right?


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Tue Apr 24, 2012 9:21 pm 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader
User avatar

Joined: Mon Mar 26, 2012 9:42 pm
Posts: 1251
Quote:
Quote:
i told her multiple times and I told her "promise you will keep wearing these to every class" she said "i am glad you like them"
I am wondering if i should text her and say "you are so cute, remind me to give you a hug in the next class" or something like that?
What did I just read...?
Are you just going to compliment the crap out of her, or do you want to date/lay her?
I see how many posts you have and am still astounded that you think this is the way to a woman's heart; you are doing a perfect job if you're trying to be friends or best friends with her (if that's the goal you're doing perfect, don't change anything) But if you want this to turn into anything more you're walking backwards

Complimenting her multiple times on the same thing*
They see this as annoying, and that you're trying to be the "nice" guy who kisses up to her

"Promise you will" wear these everyday to class*
Bad way to ask a girl to do something, and VERY desperate sounding; the girl will hear "please wear those i really really like them i just can't get enough of you i need you in my life" - that's the WORST message you can send to a girl

text her saying "you are so cute, remind me to give you a hug.."*
same thing as the last one, VERY desperate, even direct game isn't that direct...

I'd be careful to make sure she doesn't think you're gay, not meaning i think you're gay, i'm saying because of you're actions she might be so flirty and open to Just you because she might think you're gay; other than that I can't really help you further
SAGE advice here.

I bumped you for this dude. Well said.

_________________
Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 4 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link