so ive been talking to this girl a while now, and shes mad at her bf so she decies to go for me. we hang out at school, is all fun and shit... then i leave to go to work. 20 minutes later i get a text from her saying HEY... i dont respond, the she sends another text saying ...SO what do you think of me? .... im sitting there thinking...wtf.... so i say .. you know what i tihnk of you.. her: Nope.... my response: i tihnk your cute, open minded and fun.... then i asked what do you tihnk of me? (if she can ask so can i) i got back :i tihnk your an amazing guy and on top of that EXTREMELY attractive.

to which i did not respond because i didnt know what say back , the conversation had reached a point of no return. now shes mad cuz she thinks i ignored her and i told her: i was at work and to be honest i didnt know how to repsond. (maybe not the best thing to say back, but at least its no bullshit excuse)

so now my question to all you pua's in the making ....WTF IS GOING ON?

Not the best texting I've ever seen, but regardless, she obviously has interest in you. Why not drop this discussion and have her go out to lunch with you instead? How old are you two, by the way?

ill be 21 soon , shes 22, not the best on who's part? ... probably both

Your texting is AFC. Pure AFC.

You always respond, but you control the conversation. Never ask a woman how she feels about you - KNOW. You do this by simply running the game. But - text with purpose, escelate to a F2F and F-close.

Seriously, this is pretty simple.

RR

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Yeah, dude that was bad. Very needy asking her what she thinks of you.

On one hand she likes you, she can't control that. The other hand, she might think you pulled away now.

Can you still recover? Test the waters. As said before, you need to meet her in person. You must regain the dominance here. You should've fucking responded with confidence man!

But tell her to go somewhere with you. "Hey, I'm going here tonight, you should join." After that it's all as you've learnt it.

we already had plans to see amovie ... and yea i get what you mean about the needyness, cuz thatll only lead the conversation into a downward spiral... me, for example.

yea it migh tbe simple for someone with the experience. yea i know you shouldnt ask her "what she thinks of me" ... but what else could i ahve responded with ... it seemed logical at the moment. and thats what i mean by the text of death because thats the kind of shit that gets me thinking too much, then, end up responding in AFC ways

Obviously you can't go back in time! Blow off your old convo! DO NOT APOLOGIZE for it, just start over and LEAD! Leave no question in her mind what is to happen!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Do this, and do it now, DONT wait another moment.

Nuff said.

not apologizing is something i dont have a problem with lol ... that seem like the best route + plus going out with her, which we've already talked about (movie/ bar/ whatever) .... to behonest im only about 50% interested in this girl, but i still want to succeed to gain the experience

after i gave my last response...she came back the typical ...Whatever. so how can this be salvaged? i was thinknig something like:

-well i still wanna see the movie on saturday..
OR
- lets figure out a time that we can meet up downtown on saturday, ill make it up to you...

NO! Don't say I'll make it up to you!

Reply to whatever: "Don't whatever me little girl, that's cause for a SPANKING!"

"IF, I let you hang out with me still!"

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

looks like i need to get more creative

You don't have to reply with that. If you guys had an inside joke or a banter going you could have replied with that.

i understand what you mean, something less flirty-inyourface more casual would ahve been just fine too. but this is also one of my sticking points, the nice guy effect kicks in at moments like that ....