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Although it is true that women reach their prime in the 30's ( dirty 30's) It is not wise for an 18 yr old to try to work on older women. Unless you are a very mature looking 18, and have a sharp wit, you will encounter a lot of resistance from women 25 + I know this from personal experience. I used to work hard on trying to get older women, and no matter how cute they thought I was, or how charming, they all would say the same thing. I was simply too young for them. You may get lucky once in a blue moon, but it is very in-efficient.
Women are not like men, they rarely react on urges alone. For the most part they need to be mentally/emotionally stimulated first. Even when "cougars" want a younger man, they still keep it close, unless they are in their late 30's early 40's generally the biggest average gap for them will be 4-8 years difference, but they also need mental stimulation. Heavy sexual tone and plenty of compliments ( they need to be reminded of their lost beauty)
If you want to pursue older women as an 18 year old, by all means, try it out. Just be prepared for a lot of resistance. I suggest you keep it only a couple years older at the most at the moment. If you do want to keep trying, when you do encounter this resistance, it would be wise to ask these older women what they like to hear from guys, what works on them, what can you do to better your game towards them, etc etc.
See this is how I was thinking about it.
But then everyone has some good points too.
I'll give it a try and see how things work out. I guess the fear of rejection is still in my system.