Okay guys... I've been in game for like more than 1 year, and I still consider myself as AFC (okay not total AFC) ... Lately I've realized more I read or watch video's about pick-up more I got confused and start MM. I haven't read or watched anything like 6 months... and now I know what works for me and what woman are like... every single video or book has their own theory that will mess up your brain...

stop reading and watching pick up stuffs... it will clear your mind and your game will get much better.

okay if you're totally new to forum then my advise will be this books and videos


60 years of challenge
attraction code

some real social dynamic's owen cook's video.

Respectfully - bullshit.

I do the opposite. I read, watch, learn as much as I can from EVERYWHERE I can. I have been running game since the early-mid 90's. i STILL am a voracious learner.

When you think youv'e learened all you can - you're fooling yourself.

That's an AFC move.

Constantly read, refine and hone your game. Look at other's approaches and either tweak them, or shitcan them - but NEVER cut yourself off to information. The secret is being smart enough and confident enough in yourself to ACCURATELY judge what is and isn't your own game.

RR.



edit: Also, you've been in the game "around a year"... and still consider yourself an AFC... Why the fuck would you offer advice like this? Why aren't you reading every thread here and not trying to 'assume' the role of some guru? You're still a rookie yourself! You know just enough to be dangerous... Damn....

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

reading is OK. As long as you get in the field regularly.

I have a friend who has watched almost every PUA product but still has massive approach anxiety and goes blank when he tries to open girls. Watching so much PUA stuff has actually worked against him.

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Approaching is a given - or it should be...

When you get to the point you've approached so many women you don't give a fuck if they 'reject' you...and you can identify the hook point faster and faster... you're ready to seriously master your game.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Alot of material you read is stuff to help people that are new. Im a firm believer that experience is the greatest teacher. The more you get out, the more you will pick up on social cues, sex signals, etc etc and the more comfortable you will be in everyday inteactions.

Everyone gets caught up in all these theories and strategies but were all human and quite capable of learning on the fly. The more you get out, the better you get. To a point to where you dont need others help or guidance because youve seen it all.

Like I said, PU material is for guys that are new to the pickup world and not quite ready to just get out there like a blabbering idiot.But, the more you fail, the more you will see what happened and why it happened.

Im to the point where I talk to every single person regardless of gender, looks, or status because its just cool too meet new people and here about them. This helps a ton when approaching girls I actually want to be with.