Hello! A bit of a long post but please bare with me : )

So here's the thing: i'm currently trying to game a girl (pretty much a oneitis) and if i don't act quick, i'm gonna get stuck in the no-man land of dreadful friendzone. Right now it's kind of a thing/FZ middlepart. Basically i talk to her a lot via the internet (most of the time she starts the convo), a lot of negs from my part and we basically click pretty well from the humor and character part. I see her a lot in the bar and library as well. My point being, how can i escalate to avoid/get out FZ. I get a lot of IOIs and interest from her part.

So, the easy part would be to go for it, but it's a bit more complicated as i know that she is seeing someone (BUT she never brings him up in a convo and i'm not trying for just a one-night-stand but to really get her to be with me). So leave the so-called ethics out please. I've done some research on BF destroyers/straw MT and AMOGing too, and practiced the latter two.

My question being: how do i escalate on from this situation? How do i tell (bad word, maybe "let her know" is better) her that i'm interested? I'm afraid that if i just go for it she'll blow me out and just say "hey sorry but i'm not interested". Anyways i thought about going to a club because it's easier to kino/escalate/get closer in there but my first two Qs remain. Thank you.

BTW if this is in the wrong section then let me know and i will move it.

My suggestion would be ask her out, but very to the point kinda plain and simple. "you seem pretty cool, I want to take you out, what do you like doing?"

I'd link the page were this advice was giving but since Im new can't fukin do it

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