met this hb8 at a my party last weekend problem is i was running game on to other girls at the same time so i didnt have to to work on her to. the only thing we said all night went like this thru a mutual freind
(me to mutual freind) Amy whos your friend you didnt introduce us
(amy) o this is my freind jen jen this is frankie watch
(her) hi nice to meet u
(me) you having fun ?
(her ) yea this is nuts
(me) yea they ussually are havent seen you at my other parties
(her) yea i dont go out much
then i had to go back to the party
today i messaged her on fb saying Hey idk if you remember me but amy introduced us at my party friday night. I was wondering if I could get your number?
comming on to strong ?

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Well ... I think you should have gamed her and gotten the number when you were with her the other night so then you are on her mind and she KNOWS who you are.
Also, you should have had a little chat on facebook before asking for the number, not just shoot for it.
That's how i would have done it, but others may have different opinions but i don't think you did anything to bad.
Don't trip.

Well ... I think you should have gamed her and gotten the number when you were with her the other night so then you are on her mind and she KNOWS who you are.
Also, you should have had a little chat on facebook before asking for the number, not just shoot for it.
That's how i would have done it, but others may have different opinions but i don't think you did anything to bad.
Don't trip.

well our mutual freind said something about me and the girl was like o he was cute then the mutual freind told her to add me on fb but we were already freinds so i messaged her but after words i was like ahhh shit i should run game

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Lol then you're fine man.
Goodluck gaming the HB.

she just sent me the number lol. i hate facebook for that reason it almost makes its easy. i just didnt have time for her the other night lol

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...and here we have the problem...

When I'm with a chick, I don't think "I'm going to run game". I just talk with her, and GAME comes out - it'[s natural now, it's so engrained in my personality that it's a part of me - it's my reflexive state.

As for the the message on facebook... you really sent that? Verbatim? Please say you're fucking with me.

You're almost apologizing in the message you uttered. If you have to ask if they remembered you... you're DLV'ing yourself. You are also asking permission to call her? NO - she should realize it's a priviledge to HAVE you call her!

Get back to basics man...

RR

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yea like i said after i sent it i was like fuck. i jus got the number tho im waiting a little while to text her

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Cool - you already got the digits, so you can overcome that shit easily.

Remember - push/pull.....

Game on.

RR

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how do u think i should start it out. i feel like a 10 yr old asking his big brother for advice but honestly texting a facebook are my worst nightmare i rather face to face any day

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Move accordingly: FB ---> text ---> phone ---> F2F

You have the number... relax a little.

Start with a random/cocky text. Rule of thumb - NEVER send a negative text to a chick you're gaming. Ever. Always deliver bad news over the phone or better - in person. You're always the funny-hip-upbeat-sexual-edgy guy. Always. Why? Simple - you become her escape. She starts to subliminally think of you and smiles... You're painting the picture then.

Also, throw time differentials when responding. She responds in 10 minutes, you text back in 15. She waits 30 minutes, you wait 45. She waits an hour, you wait an hour and a half. Why? You force her mind to realize you're fun, but you're busier than she is - you have other shit occupying your mind, and you aren't one of the AFC's that text the fuck out of her all day long. You're different - and different is where we as PUA's live.

and always role play when you can, and leave various avenues for the conversation to go - throw inuendos and gear it sexually if you can - then set up the date.

Paint the picture so she sees herself fucking you, then fuck the painting!

Work it.

RR

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+1

Good post, you'v gained my respect.

i never thought to make myself seem like her escape thats good. and the time between responses is deff a good idea. im bout to start that now. were talking about my new ink so im sure i can get this convo gear sexualy lol

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Randoms I like:



"Wanna help me rob a bank"

she responds... you type this:

"Seriously, I need an accomplice: you driving or shooting?"

Gear it sexually - "You ride, then I'll drive and shoot" if you can...






When you get "How are you?"

I fucking NEVER respond with "Fine"... I text "I'm flying over the Rockies in a hot air balloon, how do you think I'm doing? I'm fucking stellar!" (Cuss if you have the rapport, otherwise, don't)



...and one of my favorites: "Have you ever wondered how many people mistook the Keebler Treehouse for a glory hole?" Then when they respond - never even acknowledge the question... move on to something else - random, funny and off-the-wall.

I try to be unexpected. I want to be the hand under Mona Lisa's dress - nobody sees me working, but I'll make that bitch smile....

RR

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lmao ok sounds good honestly i never thought of doing shit like that which doesnt make sence because that fits my personality perfect

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