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Lately, I feel as if direct game has been probably the most successful for louder bars or places where people have loud music and dancing. Most bars that I go to either have a live DJ, band, or a pretty noisy enviornment with music that plays in the background... Particularly in the NY area.
The best existing system, for loud places is 60 yoc.
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Anyway, I have been trying the good old opinion opener, considering that I got back into the game recently. It has given me success about 30% of the time. I feel that simply approaching a girl and saying something like "hey cool shirt... blah blah blah" then transitioning very fast, saying something like "Oh you seem really fun! What do you do on weekends? You seem like a party animal... etc." works much better in this enviornment. Talking a bit there after goes a long way as long as confidence and my intentions aren't totally masked.
you have the right idea, look for my "the perfect opener post on the lounge" and the one on Dtf women, it will help you tons...
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I have read in several books and posts that say you generally approach a girl, then try to tell a story that shows your value and then you ask about her once she is attracted to you. I have also read the opposite, which is fitting my scenario. If you approach some girls with confidence, look good and cool and they are out to meet guys, you can actually skip through the DHV stage and ask/qualify a girl or mix it in with DHVs
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skip the dhv, bullshit please, thank you!.
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Anyway, I am just wondering what you guys think about game at bars/clubs that have somewhat loud music, dancing, etc. Do you go direct commenting on girls clothes, telling girls they seem cool, asking questions about them, flirting, trying to dance, etc.? Or do you try the indirect approach? There is no real structure to "game" as long as you do it right, but in general there are some more effective scenarios for some types of game.
Aggressive, direct, escalate fast, if in 15-20 minutes, there is not chemistry, buying temperature not rising from minute 1, as well as escalation, eject... Loud places keep talking to a minimum, if you can somewhat dance, that would be easier, since you just dance, have fun while making her have fun and escalate...Follow some of my posts...
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