I just said goodbye to her, I had the best night of my life last night with another person. A concert, dinner, sleeping together. It was hard to resist making a move, I did end up dry humping her like a dog and feel embaressed, but the physical side will come.

Fuck all you guys who mock me and laugh, you live life and you fuck girls and then you start back to zero and find another girl. I found a girl who makes me feel more alive then I do during sex. I hope the sex will come, but for now, I just said goodbye to a girl that I wont see for four months, and Ive never cried this much since my grandad died.

I'm asking, how do I make this last for four months, I trust her fully. I just want her to be thinking about me and thats all i need.

Please help me

what a fucking joke.

lol maybe she doesnt let you get it in cause you'll find out she's not a virgin haha

There was a thread with an envelope routine for LDRs to check out. It may help. When you talk to her, make sure you convey that you trust her 100% and that you're not worried at all about other guys, no matter what she says. Even if she cheats, you will come out higher value by being secure in yourself.

Keep yourself busy for the next 4 months. Work on the important things in life, read a few books, get a six pack. Improve everything and keep studying pua. I'm saying this for 2 reasons. One, to be a better person and a more attractive man. Two, in order to pick up women quick in case it doesn't work out with the virgin.

hey man, can you post the LDR thread link here, I cant find it.

it's this one, hope i could help:

the-envelope-routine-ldr-game-vt131011.html?highlight

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4 Months Of Long Distance Commenced.

Part of me wants to say good luck, and the other part understands that nothing we can teach you here compares to the lesson you will receive when this girl breaks your heart.

Anyways, good luck.

Guys,

I dont understand how she would break my heart. Can you please explain?

The way I see it, she is innocent, never even aware of gaming or what it is and the most pure girl ive met. How will she break my heart?

Well, how about she goes on vacation, and within the next month she meets some new dude who completely sweeps her off her feet, and they end up sleeping together. Meanwhile you're at home rooting through hundreds of pages of "texting advice" and "LDR maintenance techniques." You allow yourself to get more and more invested, and then she drops the bomb. Or stops replying to you altogether.

Don't make the mistake of assuming any woman is innocent. Just like any man, given the right circumstances, a woman's libido has no "innocence."

I understand that, but I feel that she is more invested than me. She wanted to get a blackberry to ensure communication with me. a lot of the time I say I love you and act needy and say cute things to match her. She isn't very open, I admit that but she is very driven and says thigns that show commitment, as in "I am in this forever"... I know nothing lasts forever.

Anyways, i know the best advice you will give me is to do me, focus on me and so on. But concerning communication, BBM and so on, should I not reply, turn off the phone. What do you think would get her guesssing more than me

If you are acting needy while she isn't very opened then you are more invested than her.

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Life is good

Live it for yourself

lol you match her neediness? ...so naive. You will learn in time...

I bookmarked this thread so I could keep coming back and see how this story progressed. I don't know why I did, because I have never done this with any other posts, as I'm mostly a lurker. I guess there was just something about your story the was catchy. Something about how people came together and gave their advice. Like your relationship was some big community project, with the goal of getting you laid. I felt like I should make an exception to my habit and write a reply. Because I felt connected with your story in some cheesy way.

As to my advice, I'm not going to be one of those people to pretends they have all the answers. Though I was born and raised in the vary religious community of Salt Lake city Utah, and raised in a Mormon family. Most of the girls I know are Mormon and sex is not something most of these girls even talk about. I think there is a huge change from being a person whose perception is religious to a person that has sex. With me living a Mormon life to being the person whose goal to have a sexual life. From the old me to the one I'm now was a huge change, with years of development for the transformation.

We as puas try to sometimes engineer that change in a person. No tactic is going to work 100% of the time, making it still a huge guessing game. You played your cards, there is honor in that and lessons learned. So what if you did not get to your goal. I'm sure you are a better man because of the journey. though with that said what do I know I'm still on my beginner journey and never even been laid before. Sp you should take my advice with a grain of salt.

Though the principal is the same, and now is the question is what are you going to do in these four months. in fact Lets fast track to the future by four months, how are you going to be a better man? And what are you going to do to get there?

These are the some of the only questions that matter in life. Heck if you think she is the one, wait. If shes not, move on date other girls. I would hate to think after all of the study that we put into pua would blind us to how simple things really are.

The questions I would ask you are.
Are you going to wait?
How are you going to be a better man?

I would like to hear the end of this story, so keep up posted.

Hey buddy,

I'm nobody to give tips, but.. hey, maybe I can help a bit.


You have 4 months. Take it as time for yourself. If you reread this whole thread from an outside perspective you would see it in a very very different way.

You're investing too much, you're wasting a lot of time overthinking, and you have a terrible oneitis.


Now you have 4 months. For what? To get to know yourself, to get over this oneitis, to flirt around(not cheating, just getting good with communication, seeing you actually have options, and seeing that there are great women out there), and improve as a man. Read, hit the gym, improve, study, work, do everything. Don't keep analyzing every little detail about everything.

I'm nobody to give opinions as I said, but.. I kinda went what you went through and got me nowhere, wasted my time for 8 months straight ONLY thinking about this kind of shit. It's very taxing to the mind and the body. And were am I left now? Dumped, didn't sleep with her, still thinking about her, heartbroken, and she's probably taking cock somewhere else in less than a week from the break-up.

If I just did what I believed, lived by my rules, didn't invest that much, and was just trying to invest in MYSELF and trying to live happy...damn, I dunno how would I be with her now, but I'd be a MUCH better man, much happier and wouldn't have wasted this much time in my progress in life.



Anyways, remember... You're more valuable than any girl you will ever meet. Work on yourself, get rid of that oneitis(even though you're gonna stay with her, this oneitis will only make you loose her ---> GET OVER THIS ONEITIS) and enjoy life.



Here's some motivation: www.youtube.com/watch?v=VpXCz5dQHaY



PS:　Check the blog of the user "hakuna"

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAA.. On page 5 I told you to man up and do something...

I come back a month later and you just got a hand in her pants and now she's fucked off for 4 months.

Good grief my son.. Good grief..

All I can say is good luck. Even if you do finally sleep with her she is always going to regret it unless it is after she is married. That in its self will cause problems in the relationship. Deep down, after some time she will regret it and blame you for 'pushing' her.

Stick in there skinny. You might one day get 'see' her vagina. hahahhaa