| Hi man,
for a newbie I would say first step would be to quickly define a goal for yourself that you wish to achieve and then set out to achieve that goal.
A good place to start would be building a foundation of numbers, you are going to want to start a new habit of talking to girls you don't know, flirt with them and get their numbers.
if you want to pick some sort of system up, I suggest you only choose one to start with and stick with it taking action until you can tweak it to work for you, try to spend more time going out then reading, but on your down time read a bit
it is sort of like riding a bike, you can get the best new bike, and a manual on how to use it, the best brakes to buy for it, the best shocks, all the best gear, but your ability to ride the bike will mostly come from practise, and confidence in your ability to ride the bike, eventually over time you just become confident riding the bike and it becomes easy
I suggest just going out, throwing out a compliment, talking to a girl, asking for her number,
do this until it feels easy and normal for you, then pick a method and try to get really good at the method, see if it effects your results positively or negatively then reflect and improve, over and over repeating the process
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