hi! i woz wondering if it woz possible 2 attract ur ex-gal bac,if so den how. plz rply thru a private msg.

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if u wnt ha den u must tek d risk of luzn ha. follow d rules n d game wil flow.

Yes, it is. In fact it is easier than a new girl... why?

A) Your future projections will be easier to conjure
B) You already should have good associations you can rebuild
C) Kino will be easier as she has already been accustomed to your touch

and so on...

Most of the success you will have will come down to the individual situation though; if you broke up because you got drunk and burned down her house, it may be a little more difficult

I disagree. Once she's broken up with you, she's made up her mind. If you go back to her, she'll just pull back further. Your best shot is to move on to other women. If she sees you with someone more attractive than herself, she may get jealous and want you back then. But then you're with someone better, so why bother?

Don't give in to one-itis.

I still fight it every day.

Sincerely,
rAFC

so wot ur sayin sunrise is 2 move on?... av tried dat but wenever am wit sam1 else i don feel anyting 2wards her. i myt lyk her 4 a wyl bt i luz interest 2wards her later on. but i gess dat iz y am here. 2 discover new tings abt life dat i never knew were dea. am rdy 2du sam gal shopping now..thxx

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Well I get the same way with girls too bro. None of them compare to my ex. When me and my ex were together nothing else mattered, as example is we were partying hardcore at BarWild and we started to kiss and then everything on the outside world just seemed to vanish. We were making out for a while and when we stopped we were basically in the middle of the dance floor, probley 50 feet from where we were last. Now when I kiss another girl now all I can really do is compare, and it just doesn't seem to be the same. So right now all I am doing is going out and having a fun time. I go up and talk to girls and just try new things with my game and just try and be happy. Because the thing is you probley will never find anyone that made you feel how that one girl did.... But the world is a strange place and chances are if you go out and hunt, you will be able to find someone who makes you feel better.... that is if you are in this to find the perfect woman like I am. So far out of all the woman I have talked to I have only found 1....now... well now I am hunting again. So just go out and have fun.

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-Shaft

hey thnxx. even though u didnt like my post in the PUA' lounge,u still r a nice guy n we gat samtin in common. am also in hia koz am lukin 4 a perfect gal hu i kud spend my time wit so dat i kud 4get abt ma ex...

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Ya it's hard though, I mean I thought having sex and making out with random girls would work. It really didn't do much for me, it just brought my count up and that is it. For me though I am not really worried about sex as much as I am about building a strong rapport with every girl I meet.

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-Shaft

I know it's tough, but moving on is your best bet. If she wants you back, she'll tell you. I do hear where you're comin' from, though. I haven't found a girl who can match my ex yet, and I still think about her way too much. However, I know that the only way she'll ever come back to me is if I push her away or at least stop giving her attention and making her think I want her back. Basically, if she really is "the one" it'll work out, and she'll come around. Until then, try your best to get over her. I have had an ex come back before, but it was after 2 years of separation and telling her about other women I'd been with. She ended up dumping her current bf for me, and we were together for a year and a half after that.

Woah this is totally off-topic :S
He asked if it was possible to attract an ex GF, not whether or not it was a good idea. One-itis is something most people encounter, but it wasn't really what he was asking about.

Is it possible? Yes. It is.

Should you? Absolutely not. Don't even think about it. Leave it alone. It's not worth the heartache.

I've been where you guys (Shaft and Blacksniper both). And it sucks. I spent three years with one girl in high school. I spent another two with a young lady after I turned twenty. When she and I broke up, I spent another two years with another girl. Well, first I was having sex with the both of them and two other girls intermittently, but that's besides the point.

The best possible course of action when you're thinking about gaming an ex is: don't. It's really truly not worth it. If you do end up back with her, you still won't have it as wonderful as your memory made it out to be. And remember that memories can be fickle. You've likely forgotten some of the bad points (though I'm not sure there was enough time with Shaft's relationship for bad points to develop) and they'll be coming back in full force.

Find someone else. Give yourself enough time to heal the wounds, and go out and find someone else. It won't be the same as your last relationship, but it could be just as awesome, if not more so.

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well i guess your all right. the best move to make is ignore her. she will finally come back to me if she see's me with other girls (or never come back ). i think this is why most all you guys are here,its because you all want to get over your ex's. am glad am not the only one with this problem. and am also glad that you guys are here to help me.

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this is a good question dudes, yea we have all suffered from 1itis, but the last chick who dumped me, i definately had not fallen for, i was just pissed that I couldnt shag her anymore, she was even keen on a casual shag thing... nobody like to loose, nobody likes rejection... it would be nice to shag an ex aleast once to know you left with some pride. this place isnt a fucking woman restroom, its a place where we discover the otherwise impossible!

i think its real hard to get back with a grl who ditched you, i mean even calling her, its like what does this looser want I though I dumped him. no doubt having a sexy bitch on your arm helps jelosize her, but what if you never see the bitch again? how do you call her and make her feel like she wants to talk to you, and call you back sometime???

yo
lovvaj