Hmmm...
Never thought about it that way.
What the heck? I'm just gonna keep swinging at least some bird will get hit.
The Biggest Fuckup Is me getting stoned in front of a girl. I think I've got serious social issues. LOL

Hehe. but its true isnt it? youre young and its more true then! Theyre exploring as you are doing. Dont let it ge to you and enjoy the ride instead.. if you think of the bad situations from another perspective they are kind of fun and you can probobly laugh about it aswell which makes it less serious next time

Also maybe the girl will think your cute trying, just keep on trying. The absooluuteeely worse that can happend is that she says no, or walks away. Thats the worse..and is that really that horrible? you can even enjoy the moment and watch her ass while she leaves

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Thats so true!
I THINK I HAVE SEEN THE LIGHT. THE LORD HAS HEARD MY PLEAS AND SENT DOWN ANOTHER GIRL FROM HEAVEN TO REJECT UNTO ME SO I WILL BE ABLE TO GAZE AT HER BEAUTIFUL BACKSIDE WITH UTMOST LUST AND ZEAL AS SHE WALKS AWAY!

(LMAO)

haha... its alot better than crying about it, right?
When can we hear more stories? i wanna see your progress, man!

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Newsflash!
I fucked up again...

I walked for the full 30 minutes. I saw almost 6 HBs. And what did I do? Walked right past. (And faster than usual) The problem with me is that I play it too safe. The girls were out with their moms and dads mostly. Only 1 wasn't and she was out with her grandma. And here comes the big one... Our families don't really believe in girls and boys hooking up at these ages. It's almost fully underground. I got into good state before going out but it all went out of my system like shit on diarrohea day as soon as I saw the fist HB.
I've got 1 MAJOR PROBLEM (aside from the whole AA thing).
Most of the girls in my gaming neighbourhood only go out with their parents. Solutions?

Thanks to all who responded. For those suffering from AA. Read approach excitement by chief. Any guy who's got AE (AE, NOT AA, NOT ANYMORE.) Will benefit loads from it. And there was some kind of link on that post too. That's a great read as well.

Just be mentally prepared for it and keep a positive mind frame, your the prize not her I'd be more worried about trying to attract her imo

Thanx all. But I've gotta say,that concept about AE was the best thing I've read in a while. The danger. The thrill. The rush. My problem with that shit was worrying about it too much and looking at it from the wrong angle. That whole reframing thing did wonders for me. Keep coming back and I'll keep posting my adventures.
Cheers Mates!

Honestly,

I used the lance mason / yad approach. Go out looking for rejection. It's hilarious. One time I went up as a creepy guy...you can imagine how my walk/swagger was LOL.

I went up..didnt say anything..they looked i said....Nothing...i just wanted to say hi
*quiet*

3HB's : um....go away ?

Me: uh...no its a free country

LOOOOLLLOOOLLOLOLOOLLO

DUDE...if you do that, GUARANTEED anything else in comparison is CAKE lol

.Hey man. Big success.
I got the balls to go and talk to a girl.
So,here's the lowdown.

I got on the bus with my cousin and went to the city to find out whether there were any cellphones we could buy for a law price. So anyways,there was this great looking girl on the seat in front of me. I kept looking at her fucking hair the whole fucking journey without even talking to her. So she got off halfway and left. That got me ticked off and angry. So I got determined to talk to the very next girl I saw. So we got off the bus. And I almost felt my balls quivering in my sack. My heart was racing and I felt that sick feeling in my stomach.
And Lo and Behold!
I turned around and delivered my opener.

''Say,are you following me?''

She was probably a fuckin nut job,or my opener was way fuckin out of line but she looked at me like I was crazy. And didn't say a thing. So I asked again.(p.o.i-we were walking. I was thinking the whole time whether I should have stopped and talked to her but my balls were telling me to keep the fuck walking. Any comment?) But she waved her head in a don't-fuck-with-me-kind of-look. So this whole time, my cousin is tagging along with me..with a wtf look on his face.
And just then, my head went deaf with all the STRESS and I ejected. But afterwards, it felt like the most fun I've had in ages. Any feedback is loved.

Statistically speaking-
1-I went to town with my cousin.
2-we went to a few phone shops to look for his merchandise. Being the quiet man I was, I found it amazing that I found myself bartering with the shop keeper for a discount (did this warm me up for the opening?)
3-We got on the return bus.
4-There was a HB 8.5 in front of me. And I couldn't talk to her which got me so pissed that I decided to take a step.
5-I got off the bus.
6-I started walking.
7-On an impulse I looked behind.
8-There was a HB 6 behind me walking the same way I was.
9-I turned around and opened her.
And then ''that'' happened.
10-I ejected and went away laughing.

What's up Nightblade. How's it going? Are you still struggling with AA?

Based on what I have read so far you are using a technique called Progressive Desensitization. The only problem is you're not choosing a starting point that you can handle. Instead of worrying about approaching girls right now just approach everybody. Walk up to/past/by anybody and just smile and say hello with some eye contact. After you get comfortable doing that throw in a little question like "How's if going" or "Isn't it a beautiful day!".

Once you get comfortable with that level start saying "Hi" to the girls or even just making eye contact and smiling and nodding, and starting little conversations with everyone else. See where this is going? Just get comfortable being social, don't want or need anything from the conversation, you're just being friendly.

Hope this helps. Good luck man!

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