hey guys I have a problem,
everytime I talk to a girl I think is cute, I just don't show any signs that I like her (for some reason I think a conversation with her is sufficient enough).. I tend to ignore the girls I like a lot and well i'm a very good looking guy but ive never had a girlfriend. I think something is def wrong with my game especially considering ive been called one of the best looking guys in my career at my university.

I just dont exactly know how much interest i'm supposed to show in a girl because I usually show slim to none. I guess i'm afraid that if I show any interest, the girl will get full of herself or something and not be attracted or i will get turned down. I'd just like to know how much interest I should show (like how often I should attempt talking to her/things i should do etc. to escalate )

need some help because I think this is what is really affecting me the most, thanks!

Hey dude, i am also a looker and decently charismatic when I am anywhere. Therefore peoples eyes are always on me, which made my entire game about making it extremely obvious to the girl and everyone else around me that I am trying to hit on that one girl. The only time I give the surrounding girls close to any attention is when I am using them to talk about the girl I want(when I know she is in range to hear me) Its not needy because I am not needy. I have other girls that im sleeping with and that obvious. Its a i don't care if I get you but I am going to chase you to the ends up the earth attitude. It works like a charm.. The trick is to just make it fun, a game to see if you can get her. 80% of the time the girl is just comically blowing me off, and with persistence she gives in. It's all a big game though, and we both know it. And I really enjoy it, which is why I don't care about the outcome because the game is fun enough, I can go home and have sex with someone else if I want too. And thats all being sub communicated.

When you are good looking, you can get away with this shit for the most part. Ever hear of the shock and awe technique? Google it.

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It's doesn't matter because the moment you approach, flirt, kino or ask her out; it's all signs of interests and the girls know all these.

My advice is just talk normally, like you talk to a friend. One more thing, Pickup is just words game.

fuze that sounds interesting but I just don't think I can do that with my personality.

i'm not one of the loud ones in my class but at the same time people enjoy my presence.
i'm more of a chill/relaxed guy/laidback guy not one who likes to force things on people .

i'm not sure what exactly I should do to game girls with my type of personality. I've had girls tell me i'm "sexy" , im not sure if that fits with my personality & style haha.

I'm just confused because I've heard people say you shouldn't show interest and others say that if you don't , you will never get the girl . and i've noticed I've lately taken the show no interest route and it's getting me nowhere.

need some opinions please! thanks

Well if the show no interest route has been getting you no where, what would normal logic tell you to do? The opposite? hm.. maybe.

I wrote an article called "Break The Rules" on Way Of The Player (Dot) com

Go check it out, it should help.

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Hey dude.

How much interest should you show? I wouldn't say it's how much, but just HOW should you show interest.

You could show interest in the sense that "Hey, I really like you, do you want to go on a date?"

That is probably one of the least likely ways to get you anything.

You can show interest via teasing. Tease her about everything, make her laugh, almost cross the line, but don't. This way you will be able to tell if she likes you (she laughs, enjoys being with you) and so you can increase to touching, and so on.

There comes a point where you MUST make your intentions clear. I like to always say "How would you feel if I kissed you right now?" Or say "You know, I think you're kind of cute." You must at one point confidently tell her, without any apologies, what you think of her or what you want to do to her (i.e kiss her). This way she knows all your playing games and teasing wasn't just for the heck of it, it's because, fuck, you like her!

You must slowly build it up. Start with teasing and just being cocky/funny, but don't be a dick. After that escalate to touching and so on, and at one point once you are pretty sure she likes you enough in that way, make your intentions clear.

Hope this helps

Good looking? Have sex with anyone you want at any time? Yet you're here 24/7. Think you took the whole 60yoc statement "it helps to be a bit delusional" thing a bit far. Also, many average looking people think they're better looking than they objectively are. You made me laugh though, so you can't be all that bad a person in my book:)

If you're coming from a sexual frame, you'll unconsciously project IOIs to her. If, however you are vying for her affection, you'll come off as soft and if you do in fact put off any IOIs, they likely project an air of neediness.

Next time you see her imagine banging the shit out of her, having her butt naked bent over showing that puss who's boss.

haha funny dude.. How much time out of getting laid does it take to average 2 post a day? Aprox. 2 mins per post.. Having been a member for 2 years.. Do the math

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