So i got into the game over winter and have loved all of the info i have gotten out of it. I am comfortable talking to women now, no awkward silences, and finally got laid(HB7) after having a dry spell for over a year. So i want to thank everyone on this forum for all of the advice you provided me with!

My question now though is can an AMOG have secret under-lying problems that he's trying to hide from everyone?

Point being, i am a manager for a computer lab at my college and one of my employees thinks that his shit doesn't stink, and i mean i have never seen this type of player in my life. The only conversations we have is about women. Don't get me wrong i love talking about girls, but it gets to the point where it becomes to much, like literally everything he says is about girls, we have never had a conversation about anything else (sports, games, school, tv, ext). He always says that hes texting 10 girls at a time, always on facebook trying to talking to the girls and what not. And to give him the benefit of the doubt he can open and talk to a women, but in the "high school way"...I'am 20 and have matured since my high school days but hes 18, a freshman and still has that high school mentality about women.

The funny thing though is he can talk all this talk on how he goes out and dances with girls and is talking to them non stop, but he told me he hasn't gotten laid in 5 months.... As a matter of fact he started talking to the girl i had sex with first and got no where with her cuz he treated her like a high school girl. I came in and showed her how a real man should treat a women and what do you know, i stole her right from him. He even said a couple weeks ago that he misses high school because the girls were easier to sleep with then in college.

The thing that gets me though is i think hes hiding something from his past and trying to cover it up with just solely talking about women. Like maybe he was called gay or had a bad experience in middle or high school and cant handle it. Its just killing me to figure out what is going on with this kid cuz it can be so annoying.

He even brags about all of the women hes talking to, to other WOMEN!!! He'll be like yea im taking this one girl out, im talking to these other girls, and dancing with these women to try and make them jealous. Hasn't worked yet for him to get it in...The farthest he's gone was he made out with a chick and she scratched the shit out of his back and he felt like he had to show the whole world about it. Which in my eyes is disrespecting the girl (i don't fuck and tell... well i do on here, but not in person)

So my questions is, has anyone seen this type of behavior? Do you have any tips for me that i can use to make him shut up or even perhaps help the kid? or should i just let him go on his marry way with him having the mentality that his shit does not stink.

Thanks!

First off -Total Respect for not fucking and telling, I think it is the best way (No need to brag when you attract enough women)

My Friends do the same saying "I'm playing the field" "I have 5 on the go" things of that nature. I am therefore very reluctant to start any woman topic with them as it comes into who is doing better with women and it annoys the shit out of me as i'm sure it does you.

I think that when they boast about fucking 42 women in 16 minutes, they are actually getting fuck all, but i personally let them say whatever they want and agree with it because, it makes them feel better about themselves

You could tell him about this site BUT you don't want him to be an idiot with the information and help you get here on this site.

I would let him do whatever he wants, let him tell you whatever and nod and high 5 him to feed his ego(after all he needs it, you don't). However if he comes to you and actually tells the truth (Unlikely by the sounds of it) that he isn't getting anywhere and doesn't lie to you anymore, then offer him advice on how to help him with women.

I'm 19 and like you (UK) I think it's just maturity, we have matured quicker and are comfortable with ourselves and don't feel the need to impress anyone, where as some people who have yet to mature feel the need to impress other people (mainly other men) almost like they are qualifying there selves to you, in a weird roundabout way.

Good luck