How the hell do you find the time? Maybe its just my job, the fact I don't speak the language of these people, or the fact I'm here with a bunch of guys who just arnt interested in pua and so have none of that wonderful stuff called peer pressure.

I've been working on small tthings to be more alpha, working on just talking to random ass people, looking at techniques and trying my damndest to learn and grow but how do you fond the time to go out?
And for those of you "alone", how the hell do you find the will?

Hi man,

I know what you are talking about. I was discussing this two hours ago with some of my friends. When you are overworked and chronically sleep deprived it can fuck you up.

For me it's all about momentum. You gotta build it up. Get enough sleep, don't work more than 10 hours, work out, eat right, go out...

I am also "alone" and for me just knowing that I am able to go out clubbing alone and have a blast makes me so confident.

You have to practice this daily. Do NLP, be grateful, review your goals, all that Anthony Robbins thing.

If you can do this constantly, you are successful.

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Well I wish I could work less than 10 hrs a day, but I'm on call 24/7 and work from 05 to at least 1600 usually more like 20_2200 with random wake up calls and drills at night.

I have been working on the nlp a lot though.

I hope to get out more when I'm back in the states, and after a few months maybe find a wing man or pua to see someone else's take and game.

Well I wish I could work less than 10 hrs a day, but I'm on call 24/7 and work from 05 to at least 1600 usually more like 20_2200 with random wake up calls and drills at night.

I have been working on the nlp a lot though.

I hope to get out more when I'm back in the states, and after a few months maybe find a wing man or pua to see someone else's take and game.

I don't. I have no time for this. I'm lucky if I get to game a girl once a week. I'm too busy for women, unfortunately.

I don't know anything about you titanman and why you're that busy, but here is a simple truth. In order to be great with anything (job, sports, women), you need to have your life in balance. I know when I do have time and energy to work out, do nlp, chase girls, it transcends into my job as well. Success in one area brings success into other areas of your life. But the way demands are these days, it's really not easy to to all those things.

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Trust me, I know the feeling. What it is that you do btw?

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Since November all the way to July is basically a test for me at work. If I perform very well the results will be life changing and I'd be a step closer to a big life goal of mine. That takes priority over women.

But I agree with what you say, things will be more normal after July.

USMC. Which is why I'm actually here, or the reason I found out about PUAs at least, started with body language and cold case with a bit of elicitation, all that lead me to The Game.

Since I read that book I've noticed a lot of change in the job just because I understand people more, figure I might as will mingle work and play. Haha

USMC. Respect. Done some time myself and I've realized that army lifestyle can only fit with serious GFs, not with PUA. Though it does deffinitely helps you with social interactions.

Regards,
Defy

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I agree, the serious GF wasn't serious enough to stick it so ive been in a slump for to damn long. But I'm not here to become a guru or master PUA, I'm here first and foremost to learn a new skill. I guess to some that would sound like blasphemy, but I don't have the time right now to go out to a club every week. If i can learn the hasics, practise them, and improve even a little bit then I will consider this a ssuccess at this point in my life.