Hi there, I just signed up for this forum after a few months of quiet reading.
I am 25 and i have no problem getting girls, iv slept with probably around 200 so i am usually okay but now i have a problem so this is were i am hoping u guys can help so pls be honest with me and brutal if u need be.

Right here goes.. i have recently been hooking up with a girl. girls details= she has not long been out of a 3yr relationship, she has been single about 3months told me the usual bla bla her bf cheated on her, all men r pricks etc, she has just turned 21 and she is stunning the kind of girl you could take home to meet ur parents, respectable, faithful type, wont talk 2 my friends etc, she says shes only slept with 3 guys b4 (obviously could be lying im not naive).
In my opinion she is girlfriend material 100% but i have never been in a relationship b4 because iv never met a girl i would like 2 be in 1 with and also i like 2 play about as im sure alot of u guys do, i seen her out in a club about 2months ago ( iv known her b4 this for a few years but never really talked 2 her but we both knew of each other and iv always liked her) anyway she grabbed my bum, bought me a drink we talked etc then i wanted 2 get on with my night so i left her and went back 2 my friends, 2wards the end of the night i was with a girl then i was going to take home 2 bang but then i bumped in2 her again, i asked her if she would like 2 come back 2 mine , she said yh but made it very clear we wudnt be having sex (bitch pls i thought) so i left the girl i was with and took her home, so basically i turned sex down to take her home Neutral she slept at mine , we snogged all night but nothing more happened Embarassed in the morning i dropped her off home and we exchanged numbers, since that night we txt each ova nearly every day and have hooked up about 5 times she has also cancelled on me twice. wen we hook up we always kiss properly weve shared the same bed 3 times, shes gone as far as playing with my cock a bit nothing proper and she doesnt let me touch her main bits. i am very confused to what is goin on between us because im not ust 2 waitin and havin 2 gain trust? maybe? i dont kno Evil or Very Mad wen we txt il mention sex and she seems keen then ova nyts she will be distant, with any other girl i would have 4got about it but with this 1 i cant, obviously in the 2months i am still banging over chicks and playin about the same way but i really want this 1 because feel she could be the 1. on one of the occasions were she cancelled on meeting me i txt her and said delete my number to which she replied " done, ur rude" i was hoping she would txt me but she didnt so avta a week i txtd her then things wer bak 2 normal txtin everyday etc, i asked why she never txt me and she sed cus u told me not 2! she seems very wise and knows the game well so in a way i feel like she is playing me, wot is goin on guys? why isnt she givin it up? am i stuck in the friend zone? is she teasing me? do i carry on pursuing her or do i accept its not meant 2 be and give up? i think shes in 2 me and i cud get her but she is so hard 2 read. what do i need 2 do? any ideas? maybe i like her more than she likes me which would be a 1st, in fact iv never bin in 2 a girl as much as i like her, im careful what i say 2 her i play it different with her maybe thats where im goin wrong, she has agreed 2 stop at mine monday night and i think if there is no more progress then i will giv up on her. sorry for the long post and thanks for reading, any replies will be appreciated>

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She keeps tellin me her mans useless, she wants me 2 hit her from the back like a judas.

First of all for the love of god learn how paragraphs work that was painful reading it.

Second i dont get why a girl who 'wont talk to your friends' is girlfriend material, i've just finshed a girl because most of my friends hated her (with very good reason, long story)

to be honest bud it sounds like she's playing you, try ignoring a few of her texts see if she sends you another one to try get the conversation going, like for example if my girlfriend ever sends me a one word text i totally ignore it, pretty much everytime she sends another one within an hour. I hope she's the one who texts you first too, if not dont text her tomorrow until she does you.

If she text you again after you ignore her boring text or text you first regulary then they are certainley IOI's, if it always you starting it off or she takes a really long time to reply most of the time then i'd just stop texting her at all cold turkey, its hard but i've done it myself and it works

Hello league, thanku for your response. sorry regarding the paragraphs situation, i never realised this was an english exam!

If my friends are talking 2 a girl there talkin to her for 1 reason, recently a few of my friends wer out clubbing when she was out, unfortunately i wasnt, 2 of my friends tried approaching her but she told them both she was meeting me (my friends didnt kno this) so i took that as a very positive sign.

At first she was txtin me 1st everyday now we take turns but if i dont txt she will eventually crack and txt me 1st.


On some days she sends plenty of IOI's on ova days not really. over the last few days we have shared a few sex texts etc so its got better and im confident she is interested.

we usually only txt each ova late at night from around 10pm until she'l say shes goin asleep usually around 2am. is this good or bad? sometimes it feels like she just wants a bit of entertainment because shes led in bed bored. i dont mind and also recently shes bin tellin me shes naked in bed horny and she wud love me 2 kiss her all over she loves my lips etc

i suspect she will have other lads txtin as i have ova girls but how do i her make her pick me?

for the last 2 days i have txtd her 1st so 2day i will wait 4 her and maybe try ignoring her but its hard and that shit doesnt really work with her, i have done it in the past where she txtd me i didnt reply then about 90minutes later she txtd me saying "ur boring, iv gone 2 bed".

the progress is just slow at the moment, i need 2 speed it up somehow.

Your thoughts?

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She keeps tellin me her mans useless, she wants me 2 hit her from the back like a judas.

Smashed her last night, all night. Should have never doubted myself. Longest iv ever waited.

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She keeps tellin me her mans useless, she wants me 2 hit her from the back like a judas.

Well done!

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