Lately, every woman of value who I as much as make out with, I start to get oneitis for, at least a little bit. It's really hindering my game, because while I keep hitting on other women, I think about these other ones too much and it slows my progress.

Anyone else having this problem? Any advice on how to stop getting oneitis?

Mhh, interesting-

Where are your goals at? Do you want to spend the next few years hopping around or are you looking to acquire a skillset for the reason of getting one 10/10 to settle down with? Your subconscious seems to be trying to move you into relationship-land.

Your head's not in the game- it's not about women, it's about you. It's not about creating loving relationships with every cold approach you do, it's about progressing your skillset. (sounds like a bit of a dick move, but welcome to the seduction community I guess ;) )

Try this: Before you go out sarging next time, spend a few minutes integrating the thought of 'I'm doing this to train a skillset' into your state of mind. Distance yourself a bit more from the emotional interaction.

One question: Does it go away after you sleep with them?


PS. You're sure we're talking one-itis btw, not just an increase in interest? One-itis, stress the 'one'- "every woman of value who I as much as make out with, I start to get oneitis for", this makes me think your diagnosis is a bit off.

I suppose it could just be an increase in interest. I'm not sure, though. Like, the day after I start overthinking it and wondering about the girl from the night before.