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PostPosted: Thu Apr 19, 2012 4:04 am 
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I have a bad habit of losing interest in a girl as quick as a month. If I know I have the girl in the bag I start gravitating to new women. Usually this happens because the girl no longer keeps me on my toes and I get bored... is there a way to fix this? Recently, I have acquired a new view on women and how beautiful they really are. I even defend the sluts now.


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I have a bad habit of losing interest in a girl as quick as a month. If I know I have the girl in the bag I start gravitating to new women. Usually this happens because the girl no longer keeps me on my toes and I get bored... is there a way to fix this? Recently, I have acquired a new view on women and how beautiful they really are. I even defend the sluts now.
You are on the right track. Do not change yourself. Many PUAs get very interested in one girl and that kills their game. Right now, if you are losing interest in one particular girl, your game is good, just need to make a good solid plan to meet women now. You are less prone to oneitis, which many PUA or new PUAs are prone to. Do not get yourself to change so that you should stick with one girl. If you lose interest, move on. Remember, the world is like a buffet, if a particular dish does not taste good, there is another one, which may taste better. You are fine man.


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I'm the same. Once she's on the hook and I lose interest. Not going to force myself to like her so just move on.


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There's always more to find out about someone, right? You can go deeper.

Like some crazy INCEPTION shit.

Maybe if you found out more about yourself, you'd know how to find out even more about others.


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Don't change a damn thing. If they aren't meeting your expectations than simply move onto the next.


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You only like the chasing part...


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you obviously don't like any of these girls, just keep them around for booty call or something lol.


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I have a bad habit of losing interest in a girl as quick as a month. If I know I have the girl in the bag I start gravitating to new women. Usually this happens because the girl no longer keeps me on my toes and I get bored... is there a way to fix this?
We have the same problem. The only fix I have right now is to up the ante. Something like, I demand the girl to spend on the date. I demand that she cleans my apartment, and other related compliance command issues. :twisted:

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