Am I right in thinking that at the point of throwing a shit test the girl is at the point where she has SOME interest in you and has not yet decided to NOT lay you.

She has not decided she will lay you but has not ruled it out at this point either?

And she is using the shit test to determine your masculinity, like if you put up with it then you are desperate for her and will put up with her s**t meaning you have no other options. If you leave, well then thats that and if you use humour or something to get around it she is closer to laying you?

Would she ever s**t test someone she knows she won't sleep with or simply reject him outright/ throw the friends line at him.

Do you have any good ways of getting around the test?[/u]

Shit test is an IOI. She likes you but needs to see if you're the man you are before committing to going out with you.

Best responses are to go along with it or shrug your shoulders and immediately change topic.

"Why are you talking to me?"
"You looked lonely standing here by yourself" or "I lost a bet" this is fine

"What are you talking to me?"
"I was only come to say hi you didn't have to be so rude to a stranger about it. I'll just go away then" is not fine.

Purely because you got defensive and justified yourself, a confident person who is sure of himself doesn't defend his actions. Where as in the first example, you are giving a reason but you didn't get emotionally affected like the second example. The second example showed a guy who had obviously been offended/upset by what she said.

Shit tests are easy to pass, seriously. I used to think shit test was banter and teasing like "ha great comeback, what book did you steal it from?". This isn't a shit test, only teasing. As long as you have a decent inner game don't worry about shit tests at all. They are over talked and made out to be this massive thing.

I've never ever had a problem with shit tests so I assume that shit tests were more than they are because I thought "what's all this fuss about?".

But be warned, you can fail 'teasing tests' too. Again don't get upset about it. "Oh it was this really great book I got for xmas blah" go along with it. If you get upset when she teases well then you look week. Go along with it or tease back.

With banter, teasing and shit tests the key is not to justify yourself. If she says something where you could explain yourself. DON'T! Do anything but telling her why you did something. And that'll pass you through everything.

Shit tests are made sooooo much bigger than they are. They are nothing once you know how to pass them.