I don't mean with girls.
How can I become that fun guy that everyone wants to be around?

Take action!

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You are THE guy already, You just haven't released him fully, just let go and have fun, everyone wants to be around someone who is fun. Make people feel good about themselves, everyone likes there ego stroked, Do this to your friends and women you are not interested in.

That's my $0.02, Good luck dude

Ok i'll try to help you since i was a little sarcastic sorry. Actually it's not that hard to be tha guy. This week i had a bad day and i went into negative thought loops. I felt worthless and bad. You are the guy, seriously, it's just that you're emotions are holding you back sothat you don't express him.

1. Accept the situation you're in and the person you are
This might sound cheezy and spiritual. But accept all the negative feelings you have. Example you have had this bad experience where you got rejection from a girl an now your afraid to approach girls. Are you never going to approach girls again??? No, go to that feeling and say to yourself. Hey that feeling was bad but i'm still here it's not killing me, it's OK! Same thing if you think you're too short blablabla

2. Express yourself
Since you have accepted yourself in every way. Again EVERY WAY!!! You can express yourself. You have that song in your head? Wistle! You feel like dancing? don't hold back DANCE RIGHT NOW! You think something is funny? LAUGH HARDD! People will notice you are not hiding your emotions and like you for you!!

3. Be social
Every i mean every person you see (Bartender/cashier/coleague) is a medium for you to express yourself socially. So if the cashier hands your change not just take it and leave looking like a robot. Say; "Hey can you still hold that money after working that many hours?" Be interested in people and allow yourself to ask and tell people whatever you want!

4. Shine
Excel in something. Whether it be PU/sport/school/chilling be the person with depth and something to offer! Look at this video it's gold believe me succes-you-decide-vt133673.html

"THE GUY" IS THE PERSON THAT ACCEPTS HIMSELF MORE THAN THE PEOPLE AROUND HIM ACCEPT THEIRSELFS. PEOPLE WILL FOLLOW YOU IF YOU DECIDE TO BE YOU!

Ciao!!

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ABSOLUTELY TRUE; trust me you may feel weird on the inside for doing these things in public but it is actually really liberating and it's a huge quality of "the guy"
I randomly dance all the time around women, they LOVE it, dance like you don't care other people are watching, and at random times (especially break dancing if your with guys or a mixed group, i've learned to break dance pretty well because of it's popularity - on the other hand if you're with a women/group of women, do something standing so you can invite them to dance with you)
This does 2 things, 1. raises the energy and shows you ARE "the guy"
2. let's them lower their guard, they don't have to worry about being silly or weird with you, which is the #1 trait most women have/share

Never let this affect you, learn and say "that's never going to happen again because i'm fixing my problem now", simple as that
that just goes without saying lol
but not in a verbally cocky way, be cocky with your actions instead, you excel in pua? don't say it, show it; excel in a sport? DO well in it with the person your targeting watching

But to reiterate, the most important trait is the 2nd one Love Star named, it show's you are comfortable and the perfect person to let your guard down around

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