Whats up players?

I walk into really loud and crowded bar and see a cute blonde sitting on chair looking at the dance floor. I make eye contact, smile, walk up to her and give her high five. She high fives me, I turn her around and take her chair. Then start dancing with her going fast through kino escalation ladder and in 30 seconds I touch her ass. I feel like she's really into me, so I say do you wanna kiss me? I see spark in her eyes and go for the kiss. (At that point I'm about 45 seconds in the interaction, fastest kiss close in my life) We dance and make out. Then I move her around the bar dancing and making out, and touch her ass and boobs. We enjoy ourselves and I tell her that now I'm going to try to get into her pants. About 40 seconds later she says she has to go find her friends and blows me off. I decided that I'm going to reopen her later and then never saw her again.

What did I do wrong there? I think our energy level was to high to start a conversation and she didn't qualify herself or anything so I think it wasn't an option to buy her a drink or take her number. Bathroom in that place sucks and there is always a line there so I couldn't take her to the bathroom. I actually think that after making out with her so fast SNL was the only option I had.

Any feedback is greatly appreciated.

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Best,

Tipsy

I've had a couple of those ultra fast makeouts in clubs, I've never seen any of them lead to lays.

Like you said she has no qualification for you, you're escalating purely on attraction. So unless you're going for the endzone right then and there (in the bathroom like you said), you're probably losing the set.

Think about getting a cab with her when your only interaction was
open => high five => kino => escalate

You'll lose the girl an absurd amount of the time to a state break as soon as you try to do something logistical. As soon as she has a rational thought she'll think you have no interest in her but to bang and this will make her lose massive value to her friends.

So now I tend to leave making out until it's in a location where sex can happen. It keeps the sexual tension alive. I've been getting less makeouts, but, really, what good are they if they don't get you laid.