what techniques are good for lasting looong in bed? NO NEWBIES PLEASE

Do some blow Kidding!

Is all about self control. When your about to cum, just stop, and do some other stuff like going down on your girl, fingering her. Girls love the variation.

For me, I find it helps if I masturbate less. I can't at all right now since I got 2 girls I am sleeping with. But the longer I go without sex, the longer I can last since I enjoy it more.

Still, lasting longer still requires practice and self control.

okay cool i got you. but the less u masturbate the longer u last? that sounds like a paradox or contradiction.

Four Key Factors in Prolonged Bed Techniques

• 1. Sensation
  
  2. Stamina
  
  3. Technique
  
  4. Leverage

1. Sensation. Desensitizing your penis is key. You can train your penis or you can perform a variety of sexual techniques to delay your orgasm. While Kinsey recommends the squeeze technique which includes squeezing your dick or hurting your balls, I won't recommend it. I've tried this personally. It won't work if the pussy is too tight and too motherfucking pleasurable. It's an uphill battle when you're in that situation. I recommend the Kline-Graber technique of practicing delay tactics during masturbation. In this technique, you simulate the sensations of the pussy with lubricants (you may even wear a condom if you want) and masturbate until you are about to cum. When you're about to cum, you stop and repeat the process many times over without actually coming. Do this for two weeks straight or 15 days straight.

There's a Snarg variation where you also simulate several positions while masturbating. You can try doggie style, missionary, standing up, on your side, or whatever.

By accident, I've also learned that masturbating twice or thrice before a fuckfest makes you last longer whether the chick is an expert at blowjobs or muscle control; it doesn't matter. The key is to masturbate before the fuckfest. Ideally, 5 minutes before the fuckfest will do. But if that is not possible (and oftentimes it isn't), one hour before the fuckfest will still be good.

2. Stamina. This is crucial. Your preparatory exercises should simulate the fast pumping motions that you need to stimulate the g-spot, pc muscles, deep spot, or whatever. It's also important to choose your partner. Bigger and heavier legs mean you can't last long enough when you put those legs up your shoulders so you can buffet her cervix for deep spot orgasms. The sheer weight will slow you down. I recommend doing rapid two-count jumping jacks for several weeks to achieve maximum efficiency. You can start with 20 counts, 3 sets then progress to 100 counts, three sets.

3. Technique. If you only bang her one way, your penis will be too sensitized you'll lose control. On the other hand, if you shift to many techniques without bringing the woman to an orgasm first, her pussy will run dry. Hence, the best technique is to make her cum on one type of orgasm and then proceed to the next several types of orgasms. The key is to bring her to one or three clitoral orgasms first before proceeding to your vaginal orgasm techniques. Why? The first woman's orgasm is likely to occur after 6 to 10 minutes when you go to direct stimulation of her clitoris or vagina after a sufficient preparatory foreplay. Foreplay can take some 20 to 30 minutes. Meanwhile, the 2nd to 4th orgasm, if you can stimulate the proper parts at the right rhythms, can occur very fast in 1 to 3 minute intervals. This means that on a woman's 2nd or 3rd orgasm, her 3rd or 4th orgasm is likely to occur at a shorter period than the first one. Many women are multiorgasmic and they don't know it, until the right lover comes along.

4. Leverage. Leverage is key to last long in bed and stimulate the proper places inside the woman's vagina. You can use pillows and proper angling to hit the right spots while conserving crucial energy and stamina.

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As I have approached middle age I find I have less stamina than I used to. But I have never actually found it to be a problem. As per earlier reply, use your fingers, your tongue, hell, use other bits of your body if you like. So long as you're both enjoying the experience it's all good.

And if you do blow it early, or you have to pause to keep going, make a positive out of it - tell her she's so amazing you can barely keep control.

Yea all that sounds cool as F. but, i have 3 questions for you: #1) in the kilne grabber technique, im supposed to masturbate until im about to ejaculate then stop, hold it, and repeat. right??
#2) by STAMINA you mean just do cardio vascular exercises? and finally #3) how am i supposed to know i have the correct LEVERAGE?

Oh yes. Get fit! I'm out of condition these days and I can tell you for sure that it doesn't help. Not one bit.

1. Yes. If you can do 20 consecutive frustrated/failed ejaculations a day for 2 straight weeks, then that's just about right.

2. It is cardio, technically speaking. However, you'll have to simulate the rapid pumping motions to consistently bring women to the different kinds of vaginal orgasms. See some Orgasmic Rhythm techniques here: 2-vt133228.html?start=15

3. If you want the woman to achieve clitoral orgasm through your penis, you'll have to position your body so that a greater surface area of your penis hits the clitoris more than the vaginal opening. This is like rubbing your penis on the clitoris and the labia majora and labia minora while doing minimal penetration.

If you want the woman to achieve PC muscle orgasm, then you'll have to hit the muscles surrounding the vaginal opening some 2 to 3 inches deep. The pc muscle, when well developed in a woman, are like tiny teeth of flesh munching on your penis. You can rotate your penis better by placing some 2 to 3 pillows under the ass of your partner.

If you want to do some cervical buffeting for deep spot orgasm, you'll need to raise both legs of the woman on your shoulder and press forward to the face of the woman while pumping her. Pillows can make your job easier.

Think of the vaginal insides as a clock. You can hit the 12 o'clock, 3 o'clock, 6 o'clock or 9 o'clock parts through the proper positioning of your body, her legs, and through the help of the pillows. Find out which angle will make your woman have consistent vaginal orgasms. As a rule of thumb, the 12 o'clock position (more popularly known as the g-spot) makes many women orgasm but not all. Some women have poorly developed muscles or nerve endings at this part. So this means that you'll have to find your woman's most sensitive parts inside her vagina through your penis.

The finale that I usually do is to give simultaneous clitoral, PC muscle, g-spot and deep spot orgasms for the woman by hitting all of these places with proper positioning, technique and pacing.

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Thanks for the heads up! Well said!