Ok guys I just got this girl's number it's one of the first I got, and she's super Hot! Only thing is I forgot to give her my number, (she works at a toy store( so I was thinking I could text her, "Hey blah, it's me Ricky, did you get home safe?" I heard someone use a line like that but I forgot exactly how it went.

Also how do I arrange a date with her? I asked her: What's something to do here that's fun and she said a restaurant (TGIF) so I said, cool give me your number and we'll do something.

How do I find our if she's free and how do I set this up? And where should we go after? I was thinking the beach? I figured it's a good place to be alone

I was thinking Hey, I'm gonna be going out this week, you should join me, when are you free? Alright, I'm probably gonna's check out TGIF at like 3

Anyways I got to txt her like right now so what should I say and how do I handle this date?

#1. No fucking restaurant.

#2. You are a fucking man this is being pursued by countless women. She is hot, but she has no value. You are not chasing her, but you are rather giving her the gift of your company.

#3. Simply text to her "Saturday - you + me = ben & jerrys" Or you could text her up...but I noticed if you get a number....text game is fucking annoying. I hate text game/phone game. I only banter now on my texts. I don't text girls for hours. And if they text me, I text back then.


#4. No dinner. She's not shown any sexual interest in you by giving a number. You didn't ramp it up. I would take her to a coffee shop..but I don't drink coffee. Usually I just take them on a walk somewhere but if it's a date, take her somewhere nice but low-key.

Cool bro, will do. I think I might take her to the beach. It's free and we can still talk and all that and have fun.

Also it's been 2 hours since she txted me back, is that normal? Say she doesn't txt me back? What's my last resort? I think I should call her tomorrow if she doesn't right? Thanks

See Pink who cares if she super hot or not. Your already giving her high value just because of her looks. I know it's really hard for guys to think with their brains when it comes to girls because many of us think with our cocks but I don't see why this girl should be something important to you right now. She didn't do anything for you yet. Take her out on a date treat her like you would your guy friend. If she starts to behave in the way you want her too show her some more attention if not don't show her much attention. See the big picture. If you don't get this girl you'll find another one. Good luck!

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Amazing and Captian Jack, thanks a lot guys, great advice! The thing is, this is like my second time I asked for a number so I'm just trying hard not to mess it up and actually get the girl (and gain experience)

It's 2:00 Am here and it looks like she's not texting back, so how do I save this situation? She may txt me tomorrow but if she don't should I call her? If so what should I say and how?

Text with purpose.

Either to set up a call, or lead to sexting and getting pics (a perk I enjoy).

Always throw a time differential.

You're overthinking this shit dude. She's JUST a woman - she's a life-support system for a pussy. Remember that. KEEP control of yourself and the situation.




(And ask for at least 3 phone numbers from women each and every day!)

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If she doesn't it's an Indicator of Disinterest. It can be she is testing your neediness or she is genuinely disinterested now because as you know attraction wanes.

Don't text her. Don't call her. Let her pursue that guy that got her number.

''Hey HB, it was cool meeting you the other day, you have me intrigued but I just can't tell if you're amazing yet, I want to take you out to the beach this week, are you free? we should get to know each other better, who knows maybe even dinner
-pinkfloyd123''

you just have to get your point accross, the more you can just cut down the bullshit and get your intentions out, the better

you might as well see if she has excuses and learn to pre-emtively prevent them, if you don't have any rapport with her then it might be more tough as no connection will usually result in a flake, that is why it is important to carry the momentum from your close straight into a text convo (imo), and how you get the date is ask for it in person rather then asking for a number, start with the date, then bridge to the date with some rapport over the phone for a day or two, just so she feels you're not a complete stranger, but keep in mind your only goal is to get her out on the date, if it looks promising then that is your only objective, making a new text buddy should not be your intention (although sometimes if you are bored the girls that are not willing to meetup can be fun to just text with and flirt with... even if it leads to nothing *keep that in mind as no compliance most likely leads to nothing*)

you should also start going out and getting numbers on the regular, one phone number is not likely to result in anything get a good 10+ numbers

if i were you i'd give it a few days and i'd either call her or i'd text her some interesting shit until she texted back. 3 in a row if you have to. you need to do something to get this girl's attention and equally, she has to do the same to get your attention. dont forget that you are a diamond in the rough and you have just as much value as she does, if you don't have that frame you'll never get her.

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Guys, seriously great tips! So I got her number 1 day ago, should I call her in 2 more days I.e. When should I call her.

Secondly what should I say? Do I build comfort with her or ask her to meet up. If you guys suggest Just talking first, what should I say?

Don't build comfort, you'll just get stuck in a rut, don't just talk, that's what every other guy does, don't call her in 3 days, yet again, what every other guy does.

Try calling her after 2 days from getting her number, talk a little bit so she doesn't think you're calling JUST to set up a day2/date/hangout, set up the day2, maybe talk a little more and then do this, HANG UP
Although like pumpington said, if you can get a day2 in person instead of over the phone it's 100x better; if you can't, try my way

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Charblad,

Well the only way to get a day 2 in real life would be to go back to the store she works at ( a toy store) which would be kinda awkward lol. I figured I could say, "Hey I was doing some shopping and thought I'd come here n see what's up." But I thought the phone might be better, Idk? If YOU think it's best let me know.

Secondly, when I call her, what exactly should I say? What do I talk about? Etc.
Now to get the Day 2, I thought I could do what style says n just say, "Hey, I'm gonna go hangout at this place on Monday, you should come hangout."

What do you think?

#1 who's 'style'? #2 its your decision, maybe get a toy and say "I needed to get a toy for this charity" an have this be a HUGE DHV while meeting her in person, if not over the phone is the second best option
Third - "you should come hangout" is a bland. Boring way with huge risk of rejection, try to phrase it like I think I did "I'm going to xx tomorrow. Why don't you come too" it cuts through some of the bs and it's phrased differently (with women different is good). If she doesn't say yes then go have a good time. Don't spend the rest of the day begging her to come or you'll ruin the attraction (also with such a short. Simple sentence it's harder to screw it up or forget words if ur nervous)

And finally talk about whatever you want. Maybe lead up to a fake 'idea' to go hang out. Talk about how much fun you had today at the park or pizza place and have a moment where you go "hey why don't we go to the pizza place/park ect" (even tho u planned it this way) it seems more spur of the moment and portrays confidence a little more

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to be a bit more specific on WHY this doesn't work well (because people woulnt always be there to tell u what not to say) is a few key words you DONT want to use around women
#1 Hey
#2 I'm Gunna
And #3 You should

Hey is what Every. Single. Guy. starts with, it shows nervousness because people think you need that extra second to think about what to say. And has some desperation in it because your trying for their attention instead of 'assuming' you have it

I'm Gunna. Slang is usually a no no, and you don't need a whole sentence just to tell the girl what you're going to do. She's not that interested in What you're going to do, but what you and her are going to do.

You should. Huge problem here. This is worse than the first two combined IMO. This phrase has almost no confidence and gives the girl a easy way out. No confidence. No girl

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Unfortunately last night I got a cold and had to go the Hospital. Today's the day I'm suppose to call her, but the only problem is it's gonna be about a week or so, until I get back on my feet. How do I fix this?

I was thinking I could call her today and just say hey what's up, and tell her I'm in Ny on some business and when I get back, we could do something? I think that sounds good? But basically, I need a way to still remind her about me yet, time bridge her until I get back on my feet.

And I thought as time goes buy I can just casually text her.