First dates... I went for coffee twice... its shit.. and boring... where do you take youre dates?

mcdonalds

First dates:
-I try to meet at an Applebee's or something to that effect in the day.
-I like to meet at a casual bar (restuarant with a bar is fine) in the evening.

I keep them open-ended, and go from there.

I also tell them "I make NO plans after this meeting. You're not someone I'm trying to scheme or plan, I'd rather just allow the night to naturally unfold" - now look at that statement on the surface - it's utter bullshit fluff to help her lower the ASD... BUT - it's also completely the truth. I don't make plans or scheme ahead of time - I scheme AS THE DATE HAPPENS, so I'm not lying... As for the night naturally unfolding - in her mind, that is precicely what IS happening, and she and I are partners on that journey...

Seriously, I only plan food for second dates - they have to earn it.

"A good pick-Up Artist will be more selective with women he takes to dinner than the women he merely fucks."

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Dinner is too much for me.

-Mini golf (kino kino kino)
-Beach (kino kino again, plus you can talk to her whilst laying down)
-Swimming (lots of chances to kino in this one, but I can't see this working if you have to go to a pool centre because you have to separate to get changed, I have a pool in my garden so it works better).
-Spa (good after a few dates when you're getting close, chicks love a jacuzzi, I know a guy that always takes dates to the spa lol).
-Water parks (calibrate this one, if it's a chick that likes a laugh it will be good as you can buy those double rings and go down slides or whatever but if she just wants to lay down then fuck it)

Basically anything you'd do with your friends really, give or take a few things. Anything fun and informal. Please, no cinemas, for the sake of every PUA on this forum, stay away from cinemas for the first few dates.

I treat all girls as friends which I want to fuck. If I want to get serious things like paragliding, bungee jumping etc get her emotions flowing for you. And girls that I really like I take flying and do (as close as I'm allowed) semi-aerobatics.

I like bars or coffee shops.

It's only boring if you can't handle a nice convo, or if she is a boring person.
I haven't taken a girl to the movies for a while. But why, exactly is that?

In the movie, you can add too much pressure. I think also, because you can't have a conversation!

Movie is just a rookie move in PUA game.

You can't really talk, get eye-contact, etc...

You want a movie - invite her to your house to 'watch' a movie - then fuck her.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Try multiple venues. More venues = more memories of you.

3 hours dinner date = 1 memory. A series of mini dates to different venues = multiple memories of you.

Multiple Bounces + Dominance = quick lay ^_^.

You can even have a coffee date, but have erands to do on the way ... I need to quickly stop by the book store, oh I need to get something for my lil sister, oh I'm craving ice cream. This has built in dominance and leading already and it's super adventures.

or

Do a mini bar hop to multiple bars with the last bar being near your house .... muahhahaha

Sincerely,

Donston

I've read many posts from this man to know I want to be like him one day.

Ya movies suck ... but sometimes you want to watch a movie and want to invite a hottie with you ...

In movies ... you can whisper in each other ears ...

I like to make my own plot or narrate my own story to the movie and whisper it to the girl's ear...

This creates an us interaction .... it's fun and makes you a bad ass for not caring of what other people thinks of you ...

Make out scene ... "That's a preview of what's going to happen later"

Sexual scene ... "That's a preview of what's going to happen later"

Fight scene .... "That's a preview of what's going to happen later" .... lol

bomb ... don't limit yourself boys :p ....

Sincerely,

Donston

I'm the opposite. I don't want to put a banner over my head that says I'm a dick.

It's counter-productive to my goal.





Different strokes...

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Am i the only one that takes them to pet shoppes? cut cuddly bunnies,
dogs, kittens, and chains i can make sexual jokes with? No takers?

"i wish i could take them all " (props to Charlie Harper for that line)

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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

I like to just invite girls to do what I like to do, I don't really care if they show up or want to do that thing, because if they like me enough they will do what ever I want, if you have no girls that want to do what you want to do... then you either need to become more attractive, or meet more girls

imo it's that simple

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^ post on the movie date by chief

my favourites are
-chilling at your house, watch a movie (netflicks is fucking awesome)
-go karts
-movie at the theatres
-get a drink at a bar/pub (patios are awesome)
-mini golf
-museums
-friends houses
-walk (usually downtown)
-random adventure, check out random places
-go to open houses, and keep making comments about how you would never live there to piss off the people that own the houses for fun
-go shopping at a big mall
-coffee



basically the location of the date is not that important unless you want the date to just be you and her having sex (movie at your house is the best for this imo), what is really important is that you both enjoy each others company, KEY WORD BEING BOTH, if she sucks don't take her out on dates, you will only end up tourturing yourself

basically if you had a date at a coffee shop and it sucked, that simply means either you sucked, or the girl you took out sucked, the location shouldn't matter, you could probably make working at a russian gulag fun if you were cool enough