Hi people how you doing?

I'm la bala and I'm from cambridge. I've been in the game now for some time but it's only recently that I've really got into it. I came across this site and it seems like its got a lot of good guys on here so hopefully we'll be able to share some wisdom!

I went out in London on Saturday night and I gotta say I think I bombed a bit. I looked slick, well groomed and had some good banter but just wasn't feeling it.

Started off chatting to two girls - really pretty and seemed to like what I was saying. One was all bf'd up but the other one seemed quite into me. Had a good time then said we'd meet up a bit later which was cool.

Then I moved on to these other two and they were gorgeous. Turns out they were sisters and seemed real fun. (By the way, I was out with my wing man all this time but he decided to leave me to it).
I was havin a good time, making them laugh and then my wingman came over and started chatting to one of them. They weren't there long and were havIng an early night but at this point my girl decided to drop the bf bomb!! whilst I was trying some tricks my mate was getting her sisters digits. I thought fairplay so carried on having a good time.

couple of hours later I bumped into the first two girls. the one that seemed real interested was practically telling me that I was staying at hers that night but then the bf'd one decided it was a girly nite and hit the arse.

I left high and dry and my wingman has been chatting to this girl since after all my hard work!!

was it just one of those nights it did I fail epically??!!

hopefully someone can share their thoughts!

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Stay happy,

la bala

Only YOU define failure.

If you meant to fuck a chick - yeah, you failed. If you meant to have a good time out - did you?

Here's the deal... when you're sarging - you always need to keep a mental note of the close probability. If it decreases - bounce the set, you're wasting time. It really doesn't matter if you're rude when you leave a set either. In reality - big fucking deal - 20 years from now, will that chick even remotely remember you? See? It doesn't mean shit.

Find your goal before heading out, and attack that goal. That's the only way you can decide if you succeeded or failed.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

You know I think your right. When I go out my target isn't just to get laid - it's to chat to women, have a good time and ultimately get some numbers.

I had a great time and I think every time you talk to a girl even if youve been doing this for years, it does give you a boost.

To be honest I think the reason I felt a bit dispondent is because I didn't commit to my game. I knew the girl who had a bf was gonna be a cock blocker but I saw it as a challenge which of course back fired.

I don't suppose it helped that my wingman got numbers so I suppose I was a bit jealous!!

always stick to the plan!!

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Stay happy,

la bala

When you get to the point you can high five him for his success - and know you'll be on your own game the next night... You'll look back at this threat and laugh...

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Yh it was a high five moment. I gotta stick to my game and stop giving hand outs I think!![/quote]

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Stay happy,

la bala