Reach down, feel between your legs and find your fucking balls!

Don't post here - spend every minute working her if that's your goal - time isn't your friend.

You're going to wait a couple days? Fuck that - pussy move.

Gain complaince or move on!
Man up, brother.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I admit I am hessitant about telling her "hey I like you and I want to get to you know you better", but not so much because I am a pussy but I rather not go all in and sacrafice what we have thus far. Right now every day we spend like 30 minutes at least alone face. I am not shy around her, we laugh, I hold eye contact no problem, I tease her, we honestly enjoy each others company so much so there are rumours at work that we might be going out or something. So I am not shy around her, but I just don't want to mess my chances by being too forward, I don't want to scare her off, or appear desperate, plus I am not 100 percent sure the feeling is mutual.

Mate let me put my 10 pence worth in here. I would LOVE to be in your situation. just read back this thread right from the start and you will have your answer.

Whether you're in love with her or just wanna bang it up, your game needs to be the same. you didn't even like this girl to start with yet now she is making you go crazy. have you ever asked yourself why???? It's because she is the pua in this situation and she doesn't even know it. spin this around, get back to the start and for fuck sake just tell her something. Christ the whole office thinks you're involved but you still haven't got your finger out your arse. I don't wanna sound harsh dude and I don't expect you to go up to her and get your dick out but seriously JUST SAY SOMETHING!!

you're finding reasons NOT to tell her you like her, you should be thinking of your game right now and get a jog on.

Get it done, don't wait until you see her at work, do it RIGHT NOW.

Good luck.

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Stay happy,

la bala

I am so mad at you, I don't know what to say. A part me is also so hurt by this I almost want to cry myself. Don't quit man. Please don't quit....



"Don't give up though the pace seems slow - you may succeed with another blow. Often the goal is nearer than it seems to a faint and faltering man"

"Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly." (RFK)

"Do I dare disturb the universe. In a moment there is time..." (J. Alfred Prufrock)

The will to conquer is the first condition of victory. (Foch)

To be disciplined means finding in one's own will the energy to face the risks involved in execution. (Foch)

For this is what America is all about. It is the uncrossed desert and the unclimbed ridge. It is the star that is not reached and the harvest sleeping in the unplowed ground. Is our world gone? We say "Farewell." Is a new world coming? We welcome it—and we will bend it to the hopes of man. (LBJ)


“What is the difference between a hero and a coward? What is the difference between being yellow and being brave? No difference. Only what you do. They both feel the same. They both fear dying and getting hurt. The man who is yellow refuses to face up to what he’s got to face. The hero is more disciplined and he fights those feelings off and he does what he has to do. But they both feel the same, the hero and the coward. People who watch you judge you on what you do, not how you fee.” (Cus d’amato)

“There is a real pathos about a certain class of politicians to be found in every capitol. They are men, public servants, of marked and acknowledge ability, whose inborn talents would have made them first-raters if they could have mustered a little more courage, a little sterner devotion to principle (rather than expediency), a sense of duty a little higher; if they could only lose their heads at the right time and REFUSED TO PLAY IT SAFE; if, in short, they could have brought themselves to pay the price that the truest success exacts even of genius itself.” (Huey P. Long)

“Beyond this place of wrath and tears looms but the Horror of the Shade, and yet the menance of the years fins and shall find me unafraid. It matters not how straight the gate. It matters not how charged with punishments the scroll. I am the captain of my fate. I am the master of my soul.” (Henley)

“This is my command, be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” (Joshua 1:9)

Its not too late to seek a newer World. (Tennyson)

“All other swindlers upon earth are nothing to the self-swindler, and with such pretenses did I cheat myself. . .” (Great Expectations)

“Manhood is Courage” (cicero)

Alright, this girls is yours. Just do it; Nike. She is not a dime; she is average. She is average. She is average. You have had had better. You can do better. You can do better. She came onto you first. She hit on you. YOu know she wants you. YOu know it. She is just afraid. There I said it. SHe is afraid of you. SHe is afraid you won't like her. Thats why she isn't more forward. She is average you know she has insecurities about her looks, obviously...She is afraid of you!

You might be seen as desperate. You might ruin your friendship. You might be talked about by every person at your fucking job. They might all hate your fucking GUTS! So what? you gotta want to do this so bad that you don't care. You got to want to do this so bad that you don't care. You got the guts for this. Now go do it. And let us know if she scream your name after you hit that ass.

This is from Scarface. This is Tony Montana taking his boss's girl. Balls my Friend, they run the world.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ab0F_L9m ... re=related

One last thing. When you do tell her don't be timid. You have to have limitless self-belief at that moment. Because like if you got into a fight, you can't step into the fight timid because your opponent might not go down with one punch....similarly, you can't step to a girl half-stepping.

Sometimes I have approached women. They have said no initially, but its been a half-hearted no and by being persistent, by being convinced they should be with me they have given in and we got it on. Confidence is key.

Go get her Champ. She is yours.

I remember the boxing great Roy Jones, Jr. talking about confidence in one of his interviews.

He said that he first learned about the power of confidence from a fighter from a rival team. This fighter would beat opponents who were stronger than him, faster than him, tougher than him, more skilled than him. He would beat fighters that had more stamina, more determination and more heart than him.

This particular fighter had more confidence than his opponents, though.

I was amazed when I first heard this. Confidence might be able to overcome superior strength and speed, but superior skills too? And confidence can be so powerful that it can trump determination and physical toughness?

I had never held “confidence” in such high regard, but you can’t argue with the success that confidence gave to Roy Jones, Jr., one of the all time greats.

I suppose confidence works so powerfully because it expects to win.

Strength expects to be strong. Toughness expects to endure punishment. Speed expects to be fast. Determination expects to keep trying. Stamina expects to be able to keep going. Superior skills expect to be skillfully superior.

Confidence expects to win.

Winning is the inherent goal of confidence. All other traits have other inherent goals.

Teddy Atlas, the famous boxing trainer and commentator, wrote in his autobiography about a type of fighter he called “the game loser.”

The Game Loser appears to be putting in a Herculean effort against a superior foe but he just can’t win. But “that’s okay” he rationalizes, he did put up a game fight after all. The reality is, of course, that he’s still a loser, game or otherwise. And, in fact, his gameness was all a show to make his losing acceptable. The Game Loser lacks confidence. The Game Loser does not expect to win. He has no intention of winning. He just wants to look good. He wants to avoid criticism. The Game Loser’s inherent goal isn’t to win. It’s not to look bad.