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PostPosted: Tue Apr 17, 2012 8:37 am 
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When at a bar/club practicing, i feel awkward leaving a failed set and moving onto another one like girls all around the place just are like "this guys trying to talk to every girl he can" doesn't it come off as desperate?


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 17, 2012 9:47 am 
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If you are starting you are "suppose to" talk to as many girls as possible. The issue here is would you be perceive for the other women if they see that you are going to all the groups trying to talk to them and getting rejected... not a good thing for you, do you know what I mean? You should see why things are not working out for you, usually when I go to a club I don't talk to more than 3 or 4 girls.

Why would you say that you are getting rejected by these girls?
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 17, 2012 2:20 pm 
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It not a big deal to get reject..just learn and move on.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 17, 2012 2:50 pm 
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doesn't it come off as desperate?
Of course it does. That's why you'll have to go to different places and preferably live in a larger city. If you are in a bar with let's say 50 people you would be a general weirdo if you hit on every girl and get rejections after like 2 or 3 minutes. That's something you'll have to avoid.

Remember you are dealing with real-life people and that "game" is no more than social interaction. Once you're known in a bar as that harassing dude you will get banned.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 17, 2012 3:02 pm 
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Tottaly agree with Ardem. We all get rejected, don't worry about that. Just learn how to deal with it and learn from each experience. They will be the keey for your success in the future

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