Been going out with this girl 3 months now (I'm 32, she's 22)...We've been on like 15 + dates/meets, had sex like 30 times, she stays over at my crib nearly every weekend plus a few weekdays, we go out in public and have lots of PDA...We switch up between who pays for dinner, drinks, etc. each time we go out...

Honestly it's working pretty well, the sex is amazing, and to boot she loves dressing up role-play, bondage, all the cool stuff...The kicker is that she looks innocent and petite as hell and you would never expect her to be this way, so that kills it for my libido (Not to mention she's into girls and has stated she has no problem having one join us if we ever become a serious couple--I know shoot me now^^)...

Anyway, away from the sex-side we have so much in common (from basics like music, arts, to political and cultural resonance) it's scary and can talk and have intellectual debates for hrs...I do alot of romantic stuff too, just to keep her looking up to me...We're honestly doing everything a couple does except make it official...

So I'm wondering how (and if) I should transition this to approaching the subject with her if not straight-up asking her (In a romantic sense or in a "game" sense). to be my girl?

We always sort of talk around it when we're together, and I'm not gonna lie I was banging another chick on off-nights with her that I just recently shelved about 3 weeks ago, because I think I want to be with this current chick...

So what should I do, and what approach should I take (romantic or otherwise)...Or simply how should I play things?

It sounds like this relationship is well on its way to exclusivity with or without you pushing it that direction. Let it happen naturally.

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+1.

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I don't get it? Even if I don't say anything eventually the topic is gonna come up, so when it "naturally" comes up, that's what I'm asking about, because it has already naturally come up and we sort of talk around it...Unless the tactic is just never engage it at all and let the relationship just exist in this null zone, where technically we could still bang other people...

If you want her to be your girlfriend, start calling her your girlfriend. Problem solved, no 'contract' conversation required.

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hmmm, to be a fu**in player...That's all huh?^^

So in public when meeting people just say she's my GF? I currently introduce her as my "Girl" when we happen to meet others I know...Not sure how to call her GF to her face, but that's interesting and surprisingly right to the point...