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As true as the statement may be, you claim Stelar's "unapologetic" behavior (there are far better definitions for his ridiculous arrogance for that matter) as alpha behavior. Would you call a man whose thoughts are extremely linear and aggressive as "alpha" behavior? Are alphas all about "I'm right, you're wrong. And not only are you wrong, but you're a fucking retard for having that opinion and disagreeing with me."?
Absolutely. On this subject there happened to be an interesting newsitem on Belgian television just yesterday about the presidential elections in the US. It did not focus on the program of the different Republican candidates and Obama but on the way they all tried to bash one another down. They were calling eachother functionally retarded and totally unreliabe. All believing they were the shit and totally right whilst the other was completely wrong.
Have you ever watched Vladimir Putin? His physical aggressiveness is frightening to many men and he's a black belt judo fighter.
Now take both examples. I've taken an example from US-alpha's (but this can be expanded to Western-Europe, which has about the same way of interacting). They are verbally agressive.
Then you've got Putin who is Eastern-European. In this region the physical is very important. An Eastern-European alpha has to be physically dominant above all.
Ok now back to this topic: Stelar is from Romania which is a former communist country so it's fair to say there was (is prolly as well) a lot of Russian influence. Stelar's style is about showing - physical - dominance. Therefore to Romanian standards he (or atleast the type of persona he portraits) is alpha as fuck. (But also Mike The Situation from Jersey Shore uses his physique to dominate others.)
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Stelar's behavior reeks of a damaging and traumatic past, showing more insecurity than anything else. He's hiding behind his arrogance as a way to hide this fact and it's more pathetic than anything else. Just because he gets laid (if he gets laid) doesn't mean he can be defined as "alpha". You're blindly falling into his frame just like Spice and some other unmentioned members and define him as something of which you have a twisted understanding of in the first place.
This I do agree on. Someone who has a normal emotional setting won't be so blindly focused on mere banging as many women as possible.
As for your last remark I do not completely understand what it is what you're trying to say. I never fall into anyone's frame as I got my own life which is fine to me and supplies me in all my needs. I am no fanboy but I believe his method works. Like I believe that in daily life David D works.
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A true alpha male doesnt have to fight to show that he is alpha. If he encounters another alpha male, he isnt threatened, he welcomes the other man as a long lost brother. You know why he does that? Because a true alpha male is very difficult to find, false wannabes on the other hand are numerous.
Remember that whenever someone gets you angry or gets a response out of you, it means that you react more to that person than that person reacts to you. In other words, youre his bitch.
As true as that might be when it's comes down to the nittygritty the leader of a animal pack (whichever species)
will attack his opponent
if necessary.
But that does not only count for wild animals:
What did George W. Bush say after a couple of loony arabs flew into the WTC? "We will hunt you down motherfuckers."
What did Iron Margaret Thatcher do when Argentine occupied the Falklands? Send the fucking army across an ocean.
Now one last point on Stelar because I find you all to be focussing far too much on his persona instead of the attitude he's trying to send out: to me he's what Germans would call an Einzelgänger. Someone who does his own thing with little regarding of others and with little need of others. Like Hank Moody in Californication.
There is far too much bashing in this lounge. I read this section to take ideas from the different essays different members write. Each with their view and background. There's to learn from everyone (yes, even from less experienced members as they look at things differently.) I've read fabulous stuff here. Inspiring material. Totally out-of-the-box content. Straightforward no-nonsense aid. And I've read Kasabi's retarded attempts to break SexAddict. Now you may tell me which was the most helpful to you. I know what was to me.
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