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PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 10:23 pm 
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I didn't really see any threads for this sort of situation, maybe you PUA's can give me some advice.

So some backstory,
I worked with this girl for over a year until I switched jobs about a week ago. We would always flirt at work but she was in a serious LTR with a guy and I've had bad experiences dating coworkers so I stayed in the friend zone. During my last week at work she pretty much spent the entire week by my side, telling me how much she was going to miss me and how sad she was that I was leaving. She even brought in some homemade desserts on my last day. We text almost everyday, she asked me a few times last week how my new job was going and etc.

Yesterday I see on FB that her relationship status was changed to single so I hit her up and found out she dumped her bf because he's been sexting with other women. Needless to say she was really upset so I consoled her for short while. Today she seems a bit worse just from some things on FB.

So now what's the best move from here, do I keep in touch with her everyday to help her get through the break up? Or do I go Alpha and wait a few days or a week before hitting her up again?

I've read that being overly concerned can make my game look weak. But at the same time this is the type of girl who has had many guys just waiting for her to be single so they can get with her. So its very likely that I'm not the only one who wants to be there for her.

Also, this is a girl I'm serious about. Not just one I want to bang.
My friend who has real natural game tried to get with her months ago and she saw right through him and didn't fall for anything. I thought that was hilarious.


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 10:35 pm 
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dude, if she was in a serious relationship, what makes you think she will be ready for something substantial anytime soon?! the chances for that are really low..
you are heading straight into the rebound zone..


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 11:00 pm 
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I didn't mean to imply that it would turn into anything soon. My plan is to hangout with her, maybe next weekend with a small group of our friends, and eventually escalate when she's back to feeling normal.

So my question is, in the mean time should i be there to console her as a good friend and risk weakening my game for the near future or should i keep some distance while she gets through this?


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PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2012 11:40 pm 
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This is relevant to my interests...

I'm in pretty much the same situation.
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