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PostPosted: Sat Apr 14, 2012 11:32 pm 
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I have found myself if the friend zone countless times. Whenever I try to close I am told, "We're too good a friends" or "I do not want to ruin our friendship." Currently I am sarging a HB7.5 and I find myself in the same situation. I have not tried to close but she has made it very clear that it is just a friendship. How could I get out of this zone? I am sure many people have had this problem before, could any of you talk from experience?
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I used to have this problem. But being flirty, sexual, and basically kino helped me stay out of it. Now, all I have are flirtationships with all my female friends.


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I used to have this problem. But being flirty, sexual, and basically kino helped me stay out of it. Now, all I have are flirtationships with all my female friends.
So basically there is no way out? Then how do I stop getting into that zone.

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these girls always have friends... when they friend zone you say you want to meet her friends... she will then get jealous and want you then... ultimately your going to meet more women this way... women have hot friends... so plough them!

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I used to have this problem. But being flirty, sexual, and basically kino helped me stay out of it. Now, all I have are flirtationships with all my female friends.
So basically there is no way out? Then how do I stop getting into that zone.



It is possible to get out, but it's more trouble for what it's worth. You can in the meantime as Danage said, game her friends. Eventually it will turn around. Just build yourself up and eliminate any weaknesses your game has


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:26 am 
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I used to have this problem. But being flirty, sexual, and basically kino helped me stay out of it. Now, all I have are flirtationships with all my female friends.
So basically there is no way out? Then how do I stop getting into that zone.



It is possible to get out, but it's more trouble for what it's worth. You can in the meantime as Danage said, game her friends. Eventually it will turn around. Just build yourself up and eliminate any weaknesses your game has

Euuhh.. Wouldn't gaming her friends mean your not interested in her? I've always disliked these jealousy methods as they for me have turned out badly, the girl getting pissed, ignoring me etc etc.

I'd go for a more physical & complimentary approach. But in a subtle way.

Just say something about her smile or something sexual and it'll give out a clear hint that You like her as more then friends.


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 12:33 am 
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You don't need to game her friends at all. Read "how do i get my classmates number" for the real details on my friend-zone reversal.

As for most guys here, they say they keep a sexual vibe with their friends...but then either they are stringing these girls along...because if you actually have girl/friends - you don't really become sexual or give sexual tension...thats the whole point of a girlfriend not female friends. But yea, you can be way more sexual with them especially if they know you're just messing with them and its not the REAL thing.


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I once read (maybe on here) that when a girl meets you she automatically puts you in one of three categories: friend, brother, lover.

Having virtually no idea who you are or what you're doing, I can tell you a couple of things that might help. When you go out, sit next to them at a Starbucks or a bar, turn towards them, have flirty conversations that you can tease them about, and touch them. I like to get them to laugh, then I like to kinda poke them or give them a nudge if that makes sense. I like to hold the door open with one hand and put the other on the small of their back.

It'll eventually flow, but you have to start pretty fast in the first few meets, if not the first.


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