I read the first thing where he puts "being rich" gave a big facepalm and closed this thread. This man fails to understand the aspects of attraction between the two. You can't compare men to women. Some women think like you do about "exploiting their good looks for a social gain" but man....I guess aren't you the lucky alpha male that gets to have all those "Real" girls to himself.

Hello everyone,

Just to point out things. Thanks to the guys who are supporting me though and I'm surprised this thread didn't get deleted but here it goes.

1. When I'm interested, dating etc. in a girl, I actually don't give a shit at all if it works or not. This is probably the most key concept I could ever endow on this thread. How can someone be desperate if I simply don't give a shit? I have better things to do. My mentality is that if you don't like me, well it wasn't going to work out, your loss. And if you do, well let's have fun and see if we can take this long term. I would rather focus on my energies on productive stuff like my studies and career than "self improving myself" solely for picking up women.

2. I don't directly think "o is she IoIing me?" or "o she gave me that LOOK, what does that mean?", "what do i say now?", "do i escalate now?" "when do i kiss her" "maybe i shouldn't said that" "fuck i should had talked about this" blah blah I JUST DO. That's what I mean by following my intuition and using the experience I have with girls. That's the thing about pickup. You OVERTHINK over something that should be simple.

3. And I DO have standards but you see, the reality is not every guy can pick up the hottest girls even if they try their very best to be alpha or whatever. Directly going for supermodel hot when you don't even have any value yourself and pretending to be alpha when you have no real achievements like sporting, academic or career-wise which MEN should be aiming for, that just doesn't make sense to me.

4. It's ironic how I'm being pointed out for being shallow or whatever. THIS IS HUMAN NATURE. Why is it any better if a girl likes you for your personality, for your money or for your looks? In the end, it's something you have over somebody else and whether you're each others type. Girls nowadays are smart and beauty is a depreciating asset that won't be there forever. Might as well make the most of it, I know if I was a hot girl, I'd fucking exploit the shit out of it. And wait a minute? How about you guys? AREN'T you doing this so you can meet girls that are hot, your type or whatever? Geez, and when have men became such advocates of personality. As quoted from a previous mentor, "Check out that personality on that chick!"

5. It's somewhat ironic to me that men who are aiming to pick up girls can claim to be alpha when actually I think that kind of mentality is weak in itself because why would you give so much emphasis on getting a GF when you should just let life run its course?

6. There is a reason why good looking/rich guys get hotter girls easily and there's whole shit of psychology studies done on it. Deal with it. But I'm not saying it's IMPOSSIBLE to not get into another "league" so to speak. It's very possible indeed.

7. Networking is very important,. I should had emphasised in the OP. Anyways, I don't even cold approach anymore but I'm still meeting a lot more girls that have opened up to me and are potential GF material. You shouldn't just aim to pick up girls. Go out with your friends. Go to parties. Go out to playing some sports, hobbies etc. Go to classes and meet a new person etc. If you don't know anyone, simply your career, your love life and your life in general will be severely affected if you simply don't network. These are the things that are much more valuable than just focusing on "picking up chicks".

I hope that emphasizes why Pick Up in itself is a very bad idea and we should aim to focus on life and reaching our potential in whatever we do best whether it is in sports, videogaming, research, career, stock trading, story-telling, marketing, making films and movies etc. , rather revolving our world over women. Once you get that right, then the women will come to you. Trust me.

This is the main reason why I want to help people but I suppose some people would want to attack me for trying to help and claiming my life is shit because I'm on this forum. /mindfucked lol