It's been a while since I've had a dance floor make out.

The other night I went out dancing with my wing and one of his mates (we usually get about 5 approaches but this night I got 3 the 3rd male really cuts off a lot off a lot of room for a lady to approach).

The first one was a chubby blonde girl who groped my butt. I let her down gently using Styles line from the game "If I weren't gay you'd be so mine". We started bumping butts for a bit but I didn't see a need to escalate from their.

The second was a petite blonde (HB7) we started dancing and her male friends started mimicking my dance moves (I swear to god they where mocking me) so started to ignore them so I started bumping her hips and she complied she was giggling having fun but she was singing along to the song that was being played this really threw me off I didn't even feel comfortable saying 'Hi' I felt as if this approach was going no where so I left before she could. I think I should have reached out for he hands and introduce myself then isolate.

The last Lady that approached me was a tall brunette (HB7, I know exactly where I went wrong here). She approached me and leaned back a bit and started bumping my crotch with her crotch. I should have just pulled her in for the make out but it happened so quickly the blondes from before game me time to compute the scenario.

Does any body know any dance moves or tricks to do on the dance floor to build comfort or even Kiss close?

When you are dancing with her and her back is towards your front lean your head above one of her shoulders perferably the one with the least amount of her hair on and try to get close to her ear or neck and breathing on it but not heavly otherwise you seem as tho you are out of shape or dieing lol. Breath a little bit on her neck or ear and pull youre head away while dancing and try to see if she moves her hair to one side. Note if she does she enjoys it and is now welcoming you in for more. After turning her on grab one of her hands and spin her around placing youre and hers on the back of youre neck and pulling her in with your other hand on her lower back. make sure you are guiding her other hand to youre back. leave youre hand with hers on the back of your neck and make sure you are dancing close to her with your forehead near or on hers. look at her in the eyes then mouth and kiss close. this works for me almost all the time.

The times that is fails, when she is not making eye contact, when she does not know the basics of dancing, or when she trys to make her own little dumb dance moves.

I always make sure that she is enjoying me next to her neck or ear before i go any furthur

I have to say the above post is awful and like a set of instructions that will fail unless you have the charisma of Johnny Depp, which unfortunately I guess you don't.

If she is back to back with you, you have 2 sure fire options as I see it,

1. You lean your head back over her shoulder and say 'Hello' she'll probably freak and turn around around.. they alway do, and you open.

2. You simply squeeze her hand give it 2-3 seconds and then look over your shoulder very confidently.

You can't be robotic, be fluid, she'll either want to dance with you or not. Don't waste your time but also don't just float around, make her KNOW your hitting on her don't stand next to her and look at her..

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Pretty simple do this to get her to start dancing with you: make eye contact, smile, raise your brows, dance in the same rhythmic pattern, and extend your hand. Most women will naturally reach out for your hand when you extend.

You don't have to grind up on her. The best way to get a woman on a dance floor is by making her have fun to start, so just start off dancing in a fun nonthreatening way(twirling her, and just having a good time so she does too). This builds comfort quickly because you aren't just a guy going after sex, fun is also a sign of alpha. Things will escalate naturally, touch and distance closing will happen very quickly on a dance floor(usually a song or less).

I watch so many guys on a dance floor come on way too strong, than there are others who just don't escalate the right way, some just at the wrong time. Just because a woman wants to dance with you doesn't mean she wants you to rub your junk all over her ass. Make it fun and light hearted, if you put pressure on the situation things will go horribly.

Kiss closing just happens when the tension is high enough, pretty simple, you just go in when you know/feel she is attracted. If you are facing each other do this: Get strong eye contact going(this can start off quickly or just build to more frequent) and do the intimate gaze(triangular gaze where you go from eye to eye to lips) building tension, than as things get more tense you just move in for the kiss. Smiling is essential with eye contact because it makes you nonthreatening and you look like you are flirting more.

Kissing on a dance floor is really just all about matching rhythm and having fun, than just going in for the kiss. That is all you need to do, is just go in for the kiss, wait at least a song or two(unless you realize a strong attraction). Go in for the kiss when the dancing is more sexual, not when you guys are dancing around having fun.

DO NOT CLOSE THE DISTANCE TOO FAST OR PUT YOUR HEAD OVER HER SHOULDER TOO EARLY. You will be creepy as fuck and merely be running a numbers game, just keep trying until you find the right girl. At some point it will be easy.

I got more if you need....

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