Where Your Located: As the title states, I'm an American living in Japan.

Age: 20

How you got into "the game": Had a really bad year in 2010, I didn't get a single number no matter how hard I tried. So last year I got into PUA a little bit, and it's been getting better ever since.

How long you've been studying and practicing pickup: I think 10 months or so. It might be closer to 11.

Which pickup method(s) you like to use: I've never really sunk into any methods, but I definitely come out with a yin-yang mixture of confidence and stealth.

What your hobbies/passions are: Computer hacking, been doing it for about 7 years (no worries, I'm an ethical hacker). I also like going to the gym.

What your goals are: My goal is to not lock myself down into another relationship, atleast for a couple of years.

Back Story: Like I said before, 2010 was a horrible year for me as far as women are concerned, but last year was pretty legit. Just from reading confidence how-to's and establishing initial attraction, I managed to at least go out on a date with every girl I approached, and even some that approached me while I was approaching someone else (that still baffles me). That was fun and all, and then I met my now recently made ex-girlfriend of 4 months. She was always accusing me of cheating, which I legitimately never did, and I got sick of her paranoia. Now I'm back at it after being single for 2 days, and I'm currently mid-game with a HB8.

You luck SOB.

Japanese girls are quite easily approachable and many have great personalities. They do get clingy, however.


They a actually very easy and love foreigners. You can notice Japanese men don't really act alpha or have much game. It quite easy to take over there.

Just go to plenty coffee shops. You will find alot of Japanese girls go there ALONE.

Approach, even in English. they will try to talk to you as best as they can.

Lucky SOB

Shit if i had the money id fly out to japan right now and be your wing man

Welcome my man.
Hope to see you around, (i am on chat like ...constantly! )

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I still don't have all the answers. I'm more interested in what I can do next than what I did last

Any luck with the Japanese approach. I get plenty of lusty looks on the subway, but I feel weird getting up, going up to her in a busy subway, and saying something you know...

I spent 3 years over in Asia when I was in and Japan was on of the places I frequented. A few things pretty important to remember is that their culture is radically different from ours:

Like eye contact, we (especially confident PUA's) use a lot of eye contact. In Japan holding long eye contact is considered a real hostile thing, I got used to not holding it a lot which made it hard to get used to keeping it once I got back state side.

Also a lot of basic Kino is considered lewd and sexual (nothing wrong with that) but if you jump the gun with it, it can kill game real quick.

Anyways good luck man

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hey man ive been in japan for a holiday twice, and one thing i find interesting is that you dont need pua skills out there, its 10x easier to get a girl. i remember on the plane i got the hostesses number, (she gave it in secret on a napkin) cute. then at the airport i got the number of the girl who worked on the english information desk. then on the first night out in shibuya, a girl opened me, 8/10 took her to a hotel, i mean i payed for the hotel was like 60$ but i thought why not, would be nice to sample the "real" japan. over there i think game is effortless just smile and be yourself, it will work for you

I don't doubt that, but where in Japan, and how did you get her to go to a hotel with you exactly?

i was in tokyo....shibuya area. lots of beautiful women go there. and many speak english, we (me and 1 friend) met a group of girls in the street, had a chat and ate some food at a restaurant with them, isolated and kissed them, each went to seperate hotels. i said "i cant be bothered to take the subway...lets go to a hotel". they just accepted it. i think as wed been to lots of differnt locations, there was a good rapport

Any of you still in japan I just moved here back in mid February and I need a couple of wings to go sarging with from time to time and to help me with one of my AFC buddies.

Hey, I'm also living in Japan right now, in the Kansai region. I'm 21, I just picked up "The Game" about two weeks ago and have already planned out further reading ventures. I don't have much experience with women, but I'm hoping in the next few months I can build a better life and bring the best of myself forward.

Peace,
River

I'm over in Osaka.

We got a few guys here who go out everyday talking to lots and lots of girls.

What part of Japan are you in?

-Deppth

hey guys. i'm also in the kansai area. i've been looking for a wingman, but haven't found any guys with enough confidence or energy (I work at a research company...you get the picture). But this seems like a golden opportunity.

I'll be near Tokyo for 3 months, August 2013 to Early November. Drop me a PM if ya'll want to hang out or talk about nightlife in tokyo. I've never been and basically know no japanese, but I am trying to learn some survival japanese for the trip.

Do they really not like strong eye contact or touching in japan? That's definitely bad for me. I bet it isn't true though; kino is beyond culture it is human nature.

hey guys. i'm a weekend warrior in tokyo cause i live and work in chubu. been getting into as much of the community out here as i can. in about a year i'll be moving to tokyo full time. in the mean time, we gaijin are always looking for friends, especially fellow PUA savvy dudes. so if you have any interest in sarging, drop me a PM and we'll go from there!