Complicated situation with girl who has boyfriend.



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:08 am 
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I meet a girl threw a friend i would say is a 9. We started talking over the phone/text and got her really interested. After talking for a couple weeks we set it up for me to come to her house and chill with her and everything went really good, im a very playful person so it was really easy to make her laugh and have a good time. Only problem was she had to babysit her two little cousins so i couldnt fuck her but i did kiss her atleast lol. 3 days later she text me that she misses me and wants me to come over again so i did and once again everything went good and i fucked her this time. At this point im falling for her even though my oringinal plan was to just fuck her lol. This goes on for about 3 or 4 months and she has came to my house and ive fucked her numerous times, it got to a point where she was calling me every single night/every morning before she goes to school ect i wasnt even initiating none of it because she was always blowing my phone up lol i mean if she called and i was away from my phone she would call me like 3 times. So of course by now im like she is really into me so im about ready to make her my girlfriend officially. So one night im texting her while she is at work and long story short i BASECALLY ask her to be with me and she text back "i like you but i have a boyfriend and I dont know what to do" So im like we went threw all this for you to tell me that like wtf!!! so i just stop textin her and i decided to ignore her and she went crazy! she called two time in a row and then she text me "Are you really gonna ignore me" but i stuck to my guns and then the next day she texts me "aye what the hell yo why are you ignoring me" lol so i just play it cool and said im not ignoring you what are you talking about. To be honest with you i ended up talking to her again and keep on gaming like a dumbass and things went back to normal. She was calling all the time, if i told her i would call her back didnt she would get mad, if she didnt hear from me for a couple days she would get mad lol, and it she even had the nerve to get mad if i talked to other girls/fucked other girls and if her friends told her they seen me with another girl she would get really mad and jealous(im like bitch you have a fucking boyfriend lmao) i was still fucking her and she would still come see me. She would tell me shes going out with her boyfriend and as soon as she gets bak home she would call me/text me while shes with him. Im not going to lie to yall i fucked up and fell for this girl and i honestly dont wanna let her go even if we can just be friends i want her in my life but i dont know what to do or how this will pan out. As for her boyfriend his is 4 years older than her and hes a pussy as far as i know(she told me is to sensitive and always wants to talk about his feelings and told me she was thinking about breaking up with because of that) But i need some advice hear ASAP from yall and has anbody been in a similar situation?????


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 7:44 pm 
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This situation is anything but "complicated." You're laying some girl who has a boyfriend. Due to all of the time you've spent together, you now believe that you have something with her. Let's break this down PUA-style.

This girl is using you for sex. Period. If she had wanted you as a boyfriend, she would have broken up with the other guy in the beginning of your interaction with her. There was a quality that she craved that her boyfriend lacked, so she outsourced it to someone else. Even if she dropped the other guy right now and started dating you, what makes you think she won't step out on you with someone else?

If you want to continue sleeping with this girl, then by all means do so. But you need to abandon the idea that anything beyond a fuck-buddy is possible. You will never trust this girl, and no serious relationship can arise without trust.

If you feel guilty for sleeping with a committed woman, drop her. Go out, close three more sets, and then reevaluate how important she is in your life.


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:09 am 
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Sit down between you and yourself and answer this question..'would you trust her if she was to be your girlfriend?' well buddy she has a boyfriend and she's fucking you so what makes you think that she won't be fucking other guys when she's with you? Girls like that aren't the relationship type, so my honest advice is to keep her as a booty call and that is it. Don't ask her to leave her boyfriend for you :S you don't want to be with someone who is 100% gona cheat on you. Maybe you fell for the girl but you have got the attitude of walking away and not contacting her because that helps a lot. So it's your choice not to either just walk away and completey cut her off until you are finally over her or you can just keep using her for sex WHEN YOU WANT TO not when she wants to. Make it on your terms.


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