I live in a house with three roommates. Two of them are very attractive women. They couldn't be more different than one another.

"Sophie," my new roommate is an ex-slut and extreme extrovert. I overheard her say that if she "wasn't living at [her] parents home the past 2 years, she would have had a different guy over every weekend." She can't stand to be alone, and likes to talk for hours without interruption. At first I accommodated her conversation, but as I got to know her I realized I was getting nowhere. My sarcasm goes over her head, so in this situation negs are of utmost importance.

She's on the lease for a year, so this is not an urgent case.

"Sally" is sophisticated and cultured. She can be shy, as our conversations in the past were few, yet lengthy. we share taste in books, music, art and, as I discovered very recently, sex. Lately, we go into explicit detail about both of our sex lives and traded stories and advice about relationships. Our conversations progress naturally, and I can tell we have a real chemistry. In the past week we have sat and talked multiple times, despite conflicting schedules.

A guy from work is pursuing her, and she plans to fuck him and ditch him. She confided in me that she likes to control men's feelings before being submissive in bed. She even told me her plans to go out with him for a second date and then go home alone, just to disappoint him/keep him interested/not seem easy. Whoa.

We have rapport, and I have given her advice (with cocky attitude of course ) that she seriously considers and also makes her laugh. Undoubtedly this information will prove useful. Does her disclosure mean that she has a real interest in me? Is it still possible to be friendzoned after such explicit conversation?

Bring a girl home so she sees her, then kick her out for being annoying. Then say, "I probably should have just slept with her because now Im horny. " They lay your roomate.

You won't really like what I have to say, but don't go there with housemates.

You can be friends with them, in fact you SHOULD be friends with them, close friends and even flirt with them jokingly. But never to go THERE with housemates.

I never paid that any attention the first time I was living with housemates. And there was this one girl I was living with and we had dangerous reactive chemistry going on the instant we met. I'd never felt vibe like with her - it was electric.

And we practically went to the point of spending all our time together (we lived together so not hard). And it was fantastic for the first few months, some of the best months ever.

Then she turned weird, and we drew apart and it all turned really nasty and I can't describe how awkward it was for the rest of the year - horrible. You really did need an axe to cut through the SPAM in the house (our relationship had an effect on the dymaics with our other housemates).

Now I will never go near housemates except to make some really good friends.

I have since had 4 really hot housemates 9s and 10s easily not making it up, but I only go for friendhips with them, and I like it that way. One of them (a 9) is one of my best friends and the SPAM is so much better and friendlier that way.

We all have a good laugh among ourselves very often about various things and go out together etc.

That was my gut reaction Eternal-Water.

Up until now it was a non-issue bc all my roommates were either men or had featureless, obese bodies. yecchh....

I'm only trying to game her because she is not on the lease, and has talked about attending grad school in europe in the fall. If something does go wrong, she'll be in another country. For me, it's worth the risk.

for now, i'll let the sexual tension build until it explodes, and game other girls in the meantime.

Fair enough, I'll tell you one thing. You know that 9 I was telling you about who is one of my best friends.

On nights out she always comes and dances with me, literally body to body and very sexually cos she knows nothing is gonna happen anyway. But that must help massively with all the "social proof" BS c**p that we have to appaently go through to raise social value

Eternal-water,

I like what youve done with your situation, It reminds me of Adam Lyons use of preselection. I think think you should pursue this tactic Joe