heres how the conversation went

Me: blank text
HB9: hey
Me: Well hello there trouble I didn't expect to hear from you...
HB9: Mm? why? lol
Me: Haha well because you would be busy breaking some poor guys heart while teasing them lol
HB9: Hahaha!
Yep that's my thing! lol
HB9: kidding.
I don't do such a thing
Me: Mhmm sure you don't haha you're devious little one aren't you lol
HB9:lol i am not.
do i look like such a person?
Me: haha you look like the type of person thats plays hard to get and not so easy to please lol
HB9: Really unfortunately i'm no that kind of person. i dont like playing games and juggling poor guys heart.
me: lol well all women do like t play hard to get so as to not look like a slag then again you were turning down guys left and right before, during, and after i met you and HB9 #2 haha

and that is where it goes ICE COLD.

so i think its a good bet that i failed the shit test because after this I asked her to meet up sometime.

no shit tests here

you just came off sort of weird in your convo in my opinion,

you're setting shitty frames for your self, but still leading, the way this came off to me was you set the frame that you are lesser then her

and at the end you went into judgmental territory, that should have pissed her right off and put asd through the roof

and you also basically baited her into making this more difficult for yourself by qualifying her to that behavior

really don't understand where you were going with this, just sort of bad social calibration and frame control

The convo wasn't too bad until this part:
I don't know what was going through your head at the time but you came across as if you knew what you were talking about, like a girls messed you about before and left you heart broken. It was passive agression IMO. You were calling her out on it, you were hurt by girls like that and you want to let her know that you know her game.

Bad frame dude, bad frame.

I'm no expert but this was a fatal mistake. They do it not to look like a slag? Really? You could say that to your mates but not to a girl. It would have been a miracle if it HADN'T gone ice cold.

Not trying to be harsh dude, but I assume you're here for honesty...

you're trying too hard, be yourself stop relying on the crap you read here with hopes it'll generate interest - most women see right through this and it turns them off as it stinks of 'try hard'

There also isn't a lot of positivity in your conversation you're just trying to be cocky funny and it gets annoying after a bit. I think she turned off because it bored her and came off as you playing games. Some women like cocky funny (not all do), but more importantly if you can make them feel good about themselves you'll get more of what YOU want from them.

the last comment you made to her was just retarded

I seems to me you have no idea what a shit-test is.

The rest has been said allready. Poor social skills result in a girl who thinks you're a complete loser.

Dude, put down the scripts, and start your training again.

Wow.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

1) as pointed out - it wasn't a shit text - it was shitty at the onset.

2) You asked her to meet up sometime? What the fuck does that mean? You confirmed a date? You sought compliance? You assumed-the-close?

"Hey wanna meet me sometime?" all she thinks is "I'm never going to fuck you"


....Scratch this one, and move to the next.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Definitely move on. Don't reiterate what you read in PUA books or on here to girls, it ends in utter utter failure.

This should be sticked "what not to do in a conversation".

BTW, most girls have no idea they make it hard for the non PUA to have sex with them. It's something they've naturally adopted. Don't call them out on shit they don't even know about.

You got to man up. No using "lols" it sounds wimpy and approval seeking. Think of it as she is trying to sell you something and your the buyer. You give this girl wayyy too much of your energy. She's just another girl trying to get by in this world just like you. She's nothing special. Guys really give girls too much of their attention. Girls are naturally attracted to guys who are not needy and think of them as just another girl. You have good conversation skills and should be proved of it and don't let that girl get to you. Go out and game more girls because that is the only way to get better with girls.

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"Experience is the teacher of all things"

Also, judging from this comment in another thread:

"It may sound a little Biased and all but that's just my opinion after years of being screwed over by girls that I've dated all the way up to my ex wife"

It sounds like you've ended up with a pretty negative view of women (perhaps with good reason), and that comes across in this conversation you've posted - you seem to have pretty much made up your mind that these girls are cunts before you've even started, and if that's the case then no amount of game is going to help.

Just my opinion, but you might want to go a bit deeper into why you feel the way you do about women and that may be beyond the scope of this forum.

Thanks for the critiques. See heres the thing One no one was around for me to show me the ropes on how to be socially adept and most of the time i was always working every waking hour of the day from a very young age so I didnt really have a social life not to mention that i have been uprooted from country to another i.e. from the philippines to the states and hence I had to learn at a late on the social structure of things. I had come across the game after i had been divorced and made a decision to improve on myself so that i would be better at interacting with people in general i have very little social skills and those were only gained from people i met at work I have a couple of rules that I live by and one of then is to never mix work with pleasure and so far i haven't broken it yet. now fast forward to today and I have just recently been moved to Japan. hence for some of you who have seen me on here would already know. I am still working on making the proper foundation and hence this is how this came about.

I had already scratched this girl out weeks ago when I didn't any reply from the first time i met here and then this just cam out of no where.

and to answer the question no I do not know what a legit shit test is. as i've said before I am new at this.....


thanks again for the feedback this will go a long way in my growth.

ill take that into consideration i will be out again tonight with a couple of freinds in either shibuya or roppongi to keep on learning. and developing.