I seem to have an issue with being in my own head, I'll think "What to say next, what should i talk to her about" If i'm not in my head then the conversation "Seems" to go smoother and i'll talk about anything and it will flow. (Sometimes the conversation will be quite random) Are there any exercises to get out of my head.

Also i sometimes worry what i'm going to say, as it might come across a little weird (Pregnant woman was serving me, I Was going to ask if it was a boy or a girl, but didn't in case it was weird, maybe too personal) Should i not worry what i say and not self edit (With-in reason)??

Comments Appreciated.

asesino Don't post, You help no one.... ( I'm going to guess he will post)

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In fact, EVERYBODY read this! This Stormy guy recommends Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now" and I just started reading it last night - it's EXACTLY what you need!

Wierdly, Asesino did post something that was helpful to me, but many of his other posts come across like a textbook troll, so I'm not sure quite what's going on there.

Asking a pregnant woman the sex of her baby is fine - what would she rather talk about than that, honestly? It's not really game conversation though.

Are you looking to fuck pregnant women by the way? That might be a thread all of its own :S

Thanks Shotgun, I'll Read that, I wasn't trying to game a pregnant woman, They don't do it for me i'm afraid, but each to their own. I was just going to make small talk but stopped myself because i thought it might be a little personal, but i shouldn't worry anymore.

Once Again, thanks for your response.