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Personally I don't sell my negatives saying my apartment is shit.
So I'd take her home and tell her that you need a females opinion on decorating your new apartment. Show her the bedroom first and you're in!
This...
Dude, if the place is empty - start looking at Craig's list.
But - tell her you're new, there was a fire, you generously gave most of your shit to your ex when you broke up, you don't give a fuck about TV and never watch it, you use your computer for movies and shit, so you don't need a TV, whatever the fuck you want... but do that as you're entering the place. Drop a hint about her helping - and she hits the space with a different paradigm than if she thinks it's JUST to fuck (more of a chance to encounter LMR/ASD if you can't shift her mental frame).
"I want your opinion on ____________" "We don't have a lot of time tonight... I've got ______ early in the morning" "
Make her feel comfortable - but also make her keenly aware of YOU. The empty apartment can be a tool if used properly...