The day after I asked her out, her friend asked her to come out to a rave but ended up going to a club. That night I texted her friend if my girl danced with anyone and she said "no, not really". That's like an unsure yes. Basically yeah she "kinda" did is what that means to me. I asked my gf how the night went and if she danced with anyone. She said she didn't and she was dancing by herself and her friend the whole time. She said there were guys trying to get at her and that this one guy was trying to talk to her.

Later on, I hung out with her friend for lunch. I asked her how that club was and if my gf did anything. Basically, I connected with her and made her tell the truth. She said my gf was talking to one guy for like half an hour or so and danced with him for like an hour or so. She didn't get his number or anything though.

I remember asking her if she did anything and she said she didn't. The fact that she hid this bothers me. And the fact that she said she was ignoring guys is now false. I wouldn't have been mad if she told me straight up, but she thinks I'm worrying too much and that I should have trust and not think she's that type of girl...

Now that I heard the news that she lied, what do I do? What should I say to her? I don't want my other friend to get into any drama...

haha man break up with the girl because this relationship is headed to a I love you when you hate me and I hate you when you love me zone.. Have the balls to just break it off and move on to a new girl. Don't bother bringing it up, just keep it moving.

Also you are playing detective which is going to get you cheated on time and time again until you learn to let you girl do what she wants and if she cheats you just move on to another.

Personally I'm not a fan of LTR's with girls who go out party and if your girl is you should know what you got yourself into.

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Agreed after a while it just get to to the point where she will keep you around and sleep with other guys guys because I already know from experience that one her friend is her friend and will always make her look good and will never tell you if she did anything with that guy the answer will always be no. Two for all you know she was busy flirting and dancing with some other guys and wouldn't be able to keep tabs on your girl the whole time. Three remember the one in the relationship that is willing to end it has the most power. Four ask her casually if she would ever lie to you depending on that answer your either going to split or stick around.

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It may sound a little Biased and all but that's just my opinion after years of being screwed over by girls that I've dated all the way up to my ex wife. A good indicator if she has cheated on you or not will be if she starts accusing you of cheating when you know you haven't, that's because she felt bad about sleeping with another guy and is trying to find a way to make you the excuse to break up.