I've never had a girlfriend before but I can engage a girl in a conversation pretty easily. The problem is i get a bit scared when i am about to approach her. sometimes i chicken out which makes me want to punch myself. im 15, very young. but i would like to fuck a hot girl. If i see this hot chick i the library, i would probably approach her by saying, something like "i've seen you before" or what books would you recommend or even what book are you reading? are these good?

Np dude. We all start at some point.

I'll break those down for you

Your first line: "i've seen you before" ... Where would you go nexT? You gotta realize this is something veryyyyy often used. they hear this shit all the time. So unless you actually know her / have seen her from somewhere... its not a good one to start with. For beginners in particular, stay away from this one because you might come off as creepy


Second one: "what books would you recommend?" I like this one but not rly sure where you are going with this either.... what books would you recommend for what? You gotta have something in mind? And why are you asking her?

Third one: " what book are you reading? are these good?" You gotta be careful here too because depending on how you say it this could easily be perceived as a direct approach and its not indirect anymore. Why do you care what book she is reading? "are these good"? Opinion questions are not bad and be careful with how much power you wanna give her. Remember, you are the guy and with girls you wanna be the one in charge, control and have power (ALWAYS)

So maybe flip the script? See what section she is one... give her some advice on what she should be reading blabla etc...

Regardless, I think in your case figure out FIRST: are you going for a DIRECT or INDIRECT approach?

if you don't know what it is or the difference I suggest looking it up

Are you in high school?

If you're in 8th grade, don't bother with this PUA stuff. It's too early. Girls at your age want a boyfriend who is loud and funny. So go yell and do whatever you feel like. Try just being ADD and doing whatever distracting thing is right in front of you.

If you're in high school, PM me, I'm a high school senior and I have some sites that apply more to high school game. I'm also happy to take any questions you have.

About your question: How to approach a hot girl in a library.

I would think about the reason she's there. If she's around your age, she probably isn't just reading for fun.

She's either on the computer, messing around on facebook or something, or she's doing research for a class.

So I would base my opener around research for a class. There are a million options here. I'll give you a few, try to write 3 more.

"Hey, I'm so bored. I have to look up crickets for my biology class, but I don't want to figure out the whole system of where all the books are. Can you distract me for a minute?"

"Hey, are you doing homework? Do you need help?" [no] "Are you sure? I'm basically a genius."

"Hey, you're cute. I'm supposed to be doing homework but I wanted to meet you instead. My name is ___"


GOOD LUCK!

I agree don't get deep into PUA routines in high school, cocky&funny works great if anything. The biggest thing is have a big social circle and be well liked at your school. For high school girls, the campus is basically their world. If you can be the class clown or popular guy you can open any girl, any way because you have status.

So use alot of humor, high school is where love tapping comes from, don't be afraid to make physical contact. An easy way I use to do in HS is ask if they work out and to flex their biceps or show their legs and I'd joke around and squeeze them, stuff like that.

how do i get the control? i always seem to lose that. even thought im in high school, im constantly doing minor pua stuff. well i dont think its considered pua but i flirt with a girl and then i get her number but most of the time i dont progress from there. done this many times since January.

hey bro. Ima try to help you out explaining this. It's not simple because most of the time you either know how to be dominant or you dont. Its called being an alpha male. You lead the girl, the group etc... , these are traits of an alpha male. You have be willing to make the first move always. When she asks you a question, don't respond right away. Girls love to be led guessing by their toes. Its kind of a badboy attitude in terms of unpredictability. It's something you will adapt over time.
In your case I was just referring to being dominant throughout body language and conversation. Make it seem like you are just there doing HER A FAVOR. you are HELPING HER OUT. She should be thanking you. THats always the mentality I carry through.

Cajun used to say: "WIth every girl I approach, I carry this mentality that there is NOWAY I'm not getting this girl. I DARE YOU to reject me" And one more thing to leave you off: You miss every shot you don't take.

SO JUST GO FOR IT. SIMPLE. YOU WANT SOMETHING IN LIFE. GO GET IT

PS: Look up the alpha traits body language and how to be dominant. There are tons of material on it out there

thanks man, that really helped even though i am only 15, would i be able to pick up girls my age at the beach during the summer? or would that be creepy?

how is a 15 year old picking up 15 years old creepy? if a 40 year old would pick up a 15 year old ... uhmm YES.

you are 15, you can get away with a lot of shit. Take advantage

and just because others aren't doing it doesn't mean anything. Be a 15 year old and go out and talk to girls at the beach. That's pro

thats awesome thanks man