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PostPosted: Wed Apr 11, 2012 8:43 pm 
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I'd agree with you if that's exactly how it went down. If you read my last post though you'd see that she asked if I was single, she suggested to hang out, she asked for my phone number, I only tried to plan them. The reason I don't think she wanted to have sex the first time we hung out is because when she texted me she said, "I just got home and I'm really tired, but if you want to hang out, we should....otherwise we can hangout tomorrow but i might be really drunk from st.patty's."

Another reason why I think sex wasn't an issue is because she literally lives right next to me, if she wanted to get it in....she would've came over the next time I invited her.
no, I saw that she asked if you were single and was giving you ioi's but you have to learn to watch what a girl does, rather then listen to what she says

compliance will tell you everything you need to know, a girl can just fake interest to get a guy to orbit, or to try to manipulate him into doing things for her, it doesn't mean she has genuine interest, and at the same time, a girl can fake dis-interest but be highly compliant, compliance never lies

you have to realize that all girls want sex, just maybe not with you, guaranteed girls get just as horny as us, if not more so (but obviously this is subjective from person to person, as different people have different sex drives, guys and girls included), chances are no matter what she wants a guy (or multiple guys) in her life, the question is, is that guy or one of those guys you

judging by compliance, I would say, low interest/availability towards you

a girl can tell you she wants to suck your dick on friday, then not show up on friday, they are just words, at the same time a girl can tell you, you are the biggest asshole she has ever met and fuck you one hour later,

look to what girls do, rather then what they say

and with that in mind, especially with young girls 16-24, there are alot of them that play guys, they have a big abundance of guys showing interest in them if they are cute, so what they do is show interest back or initiate the interest, then don't give compliance and string guys along as long as possible, because
1)they like the attention
2)they have guys in a lineup in the event that their top option falls through

this is why they set up a string of LJBF, and orbiters, for emotional support and security encase the guys they are seeing break off, or they want to move on

look for the following
-will she talk to you and flirt (with your girl yes)

-will she let you touch her in a meaningful way (this isn't tapping her damn shoulder, or friend hugs, this is holding hands, kissing, cuddling, a hug with a more sexual meaning behind it, etc. etc. meaningful kino)

-will she be alone with you

if a girl doesn't screen past these points, I certainly would not focus on her, as passing those points is not asking for very much compliance, and pursuing her as a focus would be a waste of time (although there are alternative measures to try handle these problems, it would be easier for you to just find a girl that doesn't have these problems in the first place)

GOOD LUCK
Great advice, but I still think she wasn't emotional available. I'm 6'3, 195 lbs, 9% body fat....if she didn't want to have sex with me she doesn't want to have sex with anyone but her ex. I'm not trying to come off arrogant but that's the vibe I got...


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Great advice, but I still think she wasn't emotional available. I'm 6'3, 195 lbs, 9% body fat....if she didn't want to have sex with me she doesn't want to have sex with anyone but her ex. I'm not trying to come off arrogant but that's the vibe I got...
Just to illustrate a point, look at this PUA and the boyfriends of the girls he had f-closed. Looks and a great body are just minor parts of the equation. The major part is the dopamine effect. http://justinwaynepua.com/category/just ... y-reports/

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Great advice, but I still think she wasn't emotional available. I'm 6'3, 195 lbs, 9% body fat....if she didn't want to have sex with me she doesn't want to have sex with anyone but her ex. I'm not trying to come off arrogant but that's the vibe I got...[/quote]

Don't kid yourself, not every woman will find you irresistible. You may, for whatever reason, not be her type physically. It's nothing to be taken personally, just reality.


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