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PostPosted: Wed Apr 11, 2012 12:19 pm 
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Hey guys,

I was in the game a while ago, happy with where I was, but then I stopped flirting around to be with one amazing woman. Things aren't working out with her right now, but I do plan to be with her in the future. I've decided the best way to get her is to go away, get with as many women as I can, and then come back for her later.

After devising this plan of action, I realized that I've been hesitating on approaches and not taking every opportunity. I thought maybe it's because getting with these other girls isn't what I truly want. I love this other woman. Another possibility is that it's simply approach anxiety. I have some doubts about this though, because I would start conversations with so many random uni girls back when I was with the one I wanted. I didn't have any intentions with them though.

So could it be approach anxiety? Can approach anxiety set in after previosly overcoming it? Or is it merely the fact that I don't want it bad enough? Which ever one it is, how can I fix it? I know that getting back in the game will be good for me.

Thanks.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 11, 2012 2:01 pm 
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Hey guys,

I was in the game a while ago, happy with where I was, but then I stopped flirting around to be with one amazing woman. Things aren't working out with her right now, but I do plan to be with her in the future. I've decided the best way to get her is to go away, get with as many women as I can, and then come back for her later.

After devising this plan of action, I realized that I've been hesitating on approaches and not taking every opportunity. I thought maybe it's because getting with these other girls isn't what I truly want. I love this other woman. Another possibility is that it's simply approach anxiety. I have some doubts about this though, because I would start conversations with so many random uni girls back when I was with the one I wanted. I didn't have any intentions with them though.

So could it be approach anxiety? Can approach anxiety set in after previosly overcoming it? Or is it merely the fact that I don't want it bad enough? Which ever one it is, how can I fix it? I know that getting back in the game will be good for me.

Thanks.
Approach Anxiety, can happen anytime, for a number of reasons, the #1 reason GUILT, especially when stuck on ONE girl!

But, still the best way to overcome this, is to foster through, and start DOING it!

Start building confidence again, eye contact, smiles and Hi's, approaching with no sexual goal.

Hope this helps Bro

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