some critiquing questions

why dont you emphasize the importance of story telling and having charisma?

i think your method is fine for drunk nightclub and bar settings..

but lets say a dinner party with an attractive girl at the other end of the table where you cant simply go up and start touching her. you only have eye contact... wouldnt you need to be a great story teller and demonstrate other traits to get her interested? why doesnt your method entail the importance of other things such as this?

also.....

do you think this method will be taken up by awkward people, who will just become even more silent and socially awkward? I'm worried it might get them a few hookups, but it wont help them improve overall as a person...

I have a mate who doesnt say much, and he read your book... and its kinda creepy when I saw him try it. sure he got a kiss or 2 and thought it was cool. But do you think people should go around acting like that just to get laid - risking being creepy? Personally, I think that being a good story teller and conservationist is more important than 'less is more' in befriending and sleeping with women, do you?

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How would you tweak your system to come off less as a creep while maintaining SNL's?

There's a contradiction:

• Having a poker face
• Using seductive eye contact

If I use seductive eye contact, I won't have a poker face anymore. And vice versa.

Please advise? Thanks

The main sticking point I have is big groups. I have no issue approaching a girl by herself or just with one or two friends, but if I see a really cute woman talking with 5+ other people I never know the best way to go in, whether just dealing with her or interacting with the entire group at first.

Hey Chief,

1.

Tell us how to get the most out of joining a frat.

You mentioned that joining a frat helped you detox PUA stuff and become more normal.

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2.

You're Korean.

You've talked about this before, but please mention cultural differences between orientals and whites. IN the past you've basically said they are more sexually conservative.

koreans vs other orientals

etc

Especially for Americans

This is something I'm curious about as a Chinese American. Oriental FOBs give me more interest based my overall appearance than Asian Americans or whites, who tend to think of their potential boyfriends as white moreso than FOBs.

But I can't really talk to FOBs that well because they have accents sometimes. Not really sure what to do there. My graduate student dorm room adviser from Hong Kong mentioned that girls there do like American born Chinese almost as much as white guys, but the conversations with FOBs just seem really awkward, and things like teasing and cultural references seem to just fly over their head, and when she opens her mouth to speak my ears are like "yuck."

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3.

and please talk about your recommendations for people who

are not going to be hitting on girls in bars, clubs, or parties

The one thing I've realized is that for alot of us who are bad with women or are some combination of short, ugly, or a minority

Is that the numbers game doesn't seem worth it for bars, clubs, or parties at all! Unless we are into those things! Not all of us are into drinking, dancing, and partying like you Chief. Alot of us are nerds and therefore are really not into bars, clubs or parties! We're not Stelar! We're not slywalker! We're not Chief! We're not Aaron Sleazy!

Concepts like time bridging, isolating, etc all seem pretty on the spot are useless in more tame environments where you don't just pull a girl and fuck her. Try doing that in a class, sport, or more tame environment lol. Tell us your thoughts.

And talk about

for orientals and Indians
1. hairstyles
2. clothing for body types
3. matching colors
4. looking stylish and NEAT, not crazy mystery-with-a-top-hat crap and not even like rocker/goth that kind of thing.
5. Facial hair (my suspicion has always been that very few orientals can pull this off. I read websites that say "if you have a round face, use facial hair to make it look slimmer." This is fine for blacks or whites, but this is absolutely ridiculous for a Chinese guy with a round face. First you don't have that kind of facial hair even growing on your face. Second of all, if you did, alot of asian guys I've seen with facial hair looks hideous. Dumplings with hair sprouts.)

5. If you are oriental, how do you NOT look like
a. a woman/anime character
b. bowl cut nice guy/businessman
c. short haired / buzz cut Chinese communist soldier
d. how do you either minimize your oriental features or take advantage of them (use pictures)
e. some stylish haircuts that are easy to maintain and don't have color fading problems like you were having with your hair coloring (use pictures)

For one, I'm not gonna dress like a rock star or a goth or any alternative culture stuff! Wanna dress to look good but also stylish and professional enough for a job or for my professors.

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How do you avoid hostile environments to orientals? Especially Asian girls who say publicly Asian guys are all losers or nice guys. And 5'1 Asian girls with stricter height requirements above 6'. Overall I wanna stay away from Asian girls who have those predispositions.

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And how you have your friend circle. Assanova said once that if you are a minority, it is much better to be the only minority in your group because white woman become more defensive and unreceptive out when there are like a bunch of black guys or Indians or Chinese.

I have to agree with Assanova there completely. They can't feel completely comfortable.

I don't even feel completely comfortable when I am around alot of Indians, Blacks, or Hispanics.

Unless she is into those cultures like some girls who do martial arts and stuff (Bruce Lee's wife was once his student, lol. Barack Obama's Mom married a black man then an Indonesian man, never a white man lol but she lived in Hawaii so it makes sense)

So I guess I'm thinking... you gotta stay around white people somehow in America?


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Those websites about Orientals. David Tian and Asian playboy, especially the latter. About that.

They

are creepy as fuck. The second one was like "be an Asian Frank Sinatra" and I was like wtf that guy looks like a comic book character now. He can't go around campus looking like that. DJ Fuji wearing 5.5 inch elevator shoes high heels. Creepy and weird, and he probably walks strange and can't dance with those. Those websites pay white girls to give encouraging messages and pretend they are into Asian guys.

Overall super creepy.

You probably have better and more down to Earth advice on that than them!

Why is your method a copycat of David Deangelo, Gunwitch, Mystery/Style, and a bunch of other PUA "techniques" from the last few years? (I'm not trying to sound like a dickhole... I just can't believe I wasted $47 on your product.)

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Recently my girlfriend started to get hit on, on facebook by a certain guy. She was sort of flirting back and I saw it happened a few times. I addressed it lightly with her saying he is being inappropriate as he knows you have a boyfriend I don't want to argue but I am hurt by you going along with it. She cracked up! And started saying about all the things I had done which wasn't much example some girls text me some times that I used to date but I never reply or say something sort as I am not interested in them. Well she started accusing me of being jealous and saying that she wasn't flirting and that I should know I am her bf and not him, I agree with that part and I know jealousy won't help me with my game I know I have to play it cool. So we argued over text for a few hours and I kept a calm head on the whole time while she cracked up. We left it and didn't speak all day then she called me when I was in a nightclub with my friends. We spoke and I told her I had time to think and said I know I don't like it but your my girl and I see it as a compliment. Everything was better and we were texting back and forth and it ended ok but she still seemed a little off. I can tell that she is either annoyed at me or starting to pull away and I feel I should not chase her because I did nothing wrong but want to try and get connected with her again without being one of those guys who chases and doesn't get anywhere. Thanks for reading! Any advice?

What exactly is "seductive eye contact"? It doesnt really explain it much.

And when do you plan to come out with this new product?