Hi, Guys.

Normally when a girls says she has no time I just translate to "I am politely saying no". And don't give it a second thought. But this girl is special and I am going to make an exeption.

I had serious crush on her in high school. I got a coffee date with her but somehow it ended there. She had a BF at the time.

After 8 years I ran into her at a hotel lobby few days ago we were both with our group of friends so I just smiled and she smiled back.

I asked her (via FB) for a coffee.

I expected either no reply or sorry, I have no time.

Her reply is

Hard to do I have little time. Are you in town X or Y? I'll let you know when I have more time.

Why did she say little time instead of NO time? Why would she want to know in which town I am? And why would she let me know when she has more time?

What should I reply?

Should I try to get a conversation going or what?

I have super low expectations for this working out. But like to give it a 110% shot at it.

In need for some awesome pua magic.

what the hells the matter with you, 8 years??
thats insane, it shouldn't take this long to make your intentions heard. if you were serious about game at all you wouldn't use bullshit FB, that wasn't around back in the day when you had to go out and "talk" to women. Get rid of it, unless you desperately need it for other purposes such as work or family.
the best advice at this point is make her chase you, make yourself busy, workout, work hard make your money and live to no end, she sees your open all the time, so your not a challenge, your not busy? so of course shes not gonna be as receptive. if you were to one telling her, im busy, ill tell you when im free, then she will be chasing you the same way. you should have her number and find out yourself if she has a bf or not, ask her out straight and be serious about it.

In the end mate, the worst thing a woman can say is NO. if she sais that then fuck her, 3 billion pussy's left on this earth, run through all of them.

your time is valuable remember that, make her know that, and for her to want your time shes gonna have to be worth your time, every minute your with her, she should know shes privileged to be with you. good luck

[quote="JIZZARE"]what the hells the matter with you, 8 years??
thats insane, it shouldn't take this long to make your intentions heard. if you were serious about game at all you wouldn't use bullshit FB, that wasn't around back in the day when you had to go out and "talk" to women. Get rid of it, unless you desperately need it for other purposes such as work or family.
the best advice at this point is make her chase you, make yourself busy, workout, work hard make your money and live to no end, she sees your open all the time, so your not a challenge, your not busy? so of course shes not gonna be as receptive. if you were to one telling her, im busy, ill tell you when im free, then she will be chasing you the same way. you should have her number and find out yourself if she has a bf or not, ask her out straight and be serious about it.

In the end mate, the worst thing a woman can say is NO. if she sais that then fuck her, 3 billion pussy's left on this earth, run through all of them.

your time is valuable remember that, make her know that, and for her to want your time shes gonna have to be worth your time, every minute your with her, she should know shes privileged to be with you. good luck[/quote]

yea i totally agree with that. vertigo05, you said you were expecting like "i have no time". dont you think "Hard to do I have little time." is the polite version of it? I have never heard a direct "no" from a girl. but heard million versions of runaways.
i agree with JIZZARE, i dont really suggest fb or texts for inviting a girl for a date. always make yourself clear even if what you did was wrong.
hope those things help you for your next steps and your message reply.

Haha, I had a similar situation, but it hasn't been 8 years yet but I do like to see my high school crush again.

In your situation however, what you could suggest is that the time she mention, you'll be busy doing other things and you are also unsure of any free time in the time she mention. What you could also say something like this to her 'I may have time to drop by, not too sure when or how long notice I could give you. Why don't you give me your number so I can give you a call when I'm dropping by. It'll be like old fashion. None of this high tech stuff(Facebooking).'

Make it fun and playful.

As for her message, it seem that she would like to see you just that she might not have time or got too much on her plate. So be a little patient. Like you said, if she doesn't want to see you, it's as easy as saying 'no time.'

Don't expect too much nor expect too little. Everybody should get what they want, just don't be greedy.

Good luck!
-Jax

Sure man? Why not?

You ask too many questions

Holy shit....8 years....this thread should get anyone to move over their anxiety and just ask a girl out...8 years. Jeesus.

I think you should display higher value in yourself and say you and a girl are going out soon and that you really don't have a lot of time yourself. I consider the bf a shit test that you failed. I would stay consistant and neg some more... and if all else fails go out and get more women then return to her a new man. After 8 years she knows your character and the question is does she like your character, no! So dive into her bf. Find out what he did right what he did wrong use her for the source of the pickup. Just when the conversation goes bad insert a new thread and lead the conversation back to how you would show higher value in yourself.
Good luck, happy hunting
Dangerous