This girl I like has a boyfriend. She said she has small-medium feelings for me. She said she would date me, but she's sticking with her boyfriend. Now, I had a crazy conversation with her the other day about this, about how I think we should really try to push this relationship and for her to break up with her boyfriend.

She got annoyed, I know, but she didn't display it. She also took a long time to respond to all my questions/comments. She told me I'm not her type, I'm not mature enough, I'm always "there", etc. So I think I blew it with all of that conversation....

I'm gonna go after this different girl tomorrow, so no, I don't think I have 1itis. But still, you think I'd have a shot with her even after that conversation and what she's said to me?

Pursue other women, keep her on the periphery so that if things go belly-up with bf you'll likely be on top of her list to fit the position. If not at least you didn't put all your eggs in one basket.

I think you definitely showed 1itis here. I would not have gone into any convos about how she "would" date you or your emotions for each other because it kills the sexual tension. Next time, just convey your personality with humor or busting her balls a little. Sounds like she's slowly putting you into the friend zone.

If a girl told me I'm not her type/mature enough and always "there", well I'd probably shut her down hard which might not be the best, but I typically don't give a shit. At that point I think she's called you out, because you probably HAVE been too available.

Push her to the side and talk to other girls, do NOT have text/phone convos about her relationship, that shit is BORING to you! If she contacts you about it suggest you do something to get her mind off it and put her in your own frame. For now, create some distance. Maybe she'll come to you, maybe she won't but who cares, there's plenty of hotter and more fun girls than her.

best way to find out if a girl will have sex with you, is to try to have sex with her,

give her as much plausible deniablility as you can, it either goes down or it doesn't,

if you want a girl to break up with her boyfriend, don't pressure her, just sleep with her and continue to do so until she breaks up with him, keep in mind if she cheats with you, she will most likely cheat on you as well, if you can't make anything happen with her then just plain and simple she is not interested/available to you, you will have to at least wait till boyfriend and her break up or she doesn't find you appealing as a potiential hookup (also don't listen to what girls say about their feelings about likeing you/dis-liking you, some girls try to be ''nice'' so they don't hurt your feelings while other girls try to hide their feelings out of insecurity, pay attention to what girls do and how they act, rather then what they say)

GOOD LUCK

Well, now this new girl I was talking about wants a casual relationship. What that is to her isn't anything passed 1st base. Yeah, kinda dumb I know. But also, I'm in high school. Grade 12, and it's hard to put on some game in high school. Not many attractive available girls, either.

Her loss, push her to the wayside (don't completely cut her off, since you're in the same school) and show your fun personality to other girls who are smart enough to keep you around. Remember to make that physical contact. It's easy and comes off natural and it separates you from all her "nice" guy friends"

NO! You put her off and once you put a girl off then that's pretty much it for now anyways. Try to stop contacting her for a while and MAYBE, MAYBE she will start new interest in you! But for now just move on to the next girl!

Fuck, I shoulda read that 5 minutes earlier. I just asked the same chick with the boyfriend to do something Saturday. She's busy hanging out with her friend Tyler, so we're not going, but still.. Damn haha

this is a flake, if a girl has an excuse not to meet you 3x in a row, just move on, if she has interest she will come to you

Alright man, got it, thanks. 2 more times!

If a girl has a boyfriend, very rarely will she do it unless something isn't right in the relationship. I go by what Richard LaRuina says and personal experience....