Hey all!

I definitely have a problem of opening since I've been thinking for 10 minutes how to open this post. But hey, I guess that's what I'm here for.

I must say that I find the whole PUA thing as an awesome hobby, even though I haven't really tried it yet myself. Has there ever been any other as intriguing way of learning to socialize than this? Not just that, but often at least us Finns tend to go to bars for only one reason: get hammered. Of course, while getting hammered, we think how awesome it would be to pickup some girls but yet again, who wants to go home with a drunk? So now there's two purposes for me to go to bars and I can pick whichever reason feels more suitable at the time! To be honest I've passed the phase where I go to bars to get hammered; instead I just don't go to them almost at all but now I finally can again!

It seems that finally that I opened, I can't shut my mouth... That's a good sign, right?

Welcome to the community!

It's good that you know your strength and weakness is. Opener may seen hard now but soon you'll realize opener are just as easy as asking for the time or direction to a location! If your the random kind of guy you may be more successful with indirect opener but if your more of a canned material use opinion openers. Find what fits you and make your personality shine at the same time!

Lurk around the forum and feel free to ask well thought question and well thought answer will be given!

Good luck with your game, and let the force be with you young PUA.

-Jax