| the same thing goes for me. I have this thing that whenever i am with a girl i am attracted to and i am talking to her, i tend to run out of things. its not the same with guys. with guys i get along very easily. i dont have AA.but then i realized, that if i am not really thinking of picking up this women, or getting into her pants, but just focusing on socializing with her, and just telling myself that i am not attracted to her, i am just talking to her, then i can speak to women effortlessly.
the basic thing is, we men tend to give in and create pressure within ourselves with the women we like and want to talk to. those women, who we aren't interested in, we talk to them effortlessly, and it really doesn't matter to us, because we aren't going to sleep with them. so, right now, i am working on trying to meet many women and see if i can talk to them, just like guys and carry out the basic part of socialization. you might want to try this out too.
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