Hey.

I'm a 16 year old high schooler right now, and I've been trying to get into PUA a lot more recently. I believe it's really working--I'm becoming a lot more confident around women and I've gotten a few phone numbers.

But I was curious as to what you guys think about the way I dress and look. Can I improve my appearance?

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Join a gym and put on a little bit of weight. As for clothing, just pick a style you like the look of, that also depends on the kinds of girls you go for e.g. if you like rocker type girls you want to dress in that kind of style and you will attract them easier.

Dress loudly, (If that makes sense to you). Women are like magpies, they are attracted to bright colours and shiny stuff. Just dress in a way that will make you stand out, if the outfit happens to have a drop of fashion then consider that a bonus!

AdamThomas was right, although it's not necessary to have bulging muscles to get women it wouldn't hurt to fill out that T shirt a bit. Surprisingly enough putting on weight that way is pretty easy if you make an effort. I started weight training at your age and the change in my body shape was almost instantaneous.

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Right now you look like a little boy. To tell you the truth, you don't look bad at all. High school teens will like you for your looks. But once you get past high school and start gaming with women or college girls, you can't attract them with your looks. You need a solid personality to attract girls. I would say join the gym, eat more, you look a little skinny, and if you really want chicks, start acting mature. Because you can look like the hottest stud in school, but a girl won't fall for you unless you have a personality.

BTW, good job on getting their digits. Way to go, keep working.

First off, god job man on improving yourself and high five for having the guts to post pics of yourself.

Two pics arnt really enough to go on. The best thing to do is take a couple full body pics of you wearing a few outfits you usually wear.

From what I see now though here is my current advice:

- Lift weights.
- Your shirts look one size to big
- Go see a GOOD male hair stylist (30+ bucks) and tell him you want a sexy cut. After that take pics of it and you can then have a cheaper person cut it after that.
- Experiment with some facial hair to look older.

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I know I definitely need to work out some more.
What do you guys suggest I do with my hair? Longer, shorter, how should it be cut?

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interesting

at your age i'm pretty sure girls are mostly attracted to looks, and (no homo) you're not a bad looking dude.

but yes even for 16 I'd say you look pretty small, if you're trying to look a little older/classier (well i'm 19 and I know that people my age try to aim for this) I have a few tips in that aspect.

I tend to focus a lot on fashion but I do it without really trying, it's just my personal preferences but apparently I've got good taste because out of all the "oh that guys cute" or "oh that guys hot" , the one I get the most often is "that guys sexy" (no lie). so I'll give you some tips since you're going to be growing up pretty soon.


-wear a slick watch (classy/sexy) .preferably one that looks like this
http://images.urbanoutfitters.com/is/im ... _a?$beauty$

-Yes, work out. you need to get bigger, at your weight/size you can easily get a sixpack. girls your age fuckin love six packs.

-if the pics you put up here are the type you have on facebook, you need to change them & put more pics of you having fun and doing fun shit .

-and yeah like some people said experiment with facial hair

-if you want to , wear hipster looking (unfortunately) necklaces like this http://images.urbanoutfitters.com/is/im ... _a?$beauty$

I personally don't wear necklaces but i have some hipster friends who do and girls are always all over em (not saying it's cause the necklaces but they obviously don't hurt. )

- basically yeah man, if I have some high school advice for you, it's basically just try to stand out from the crowd and form YOUR style. you're already a good looking dude like I said , now just try to stand out a little more (using accessories like the ones I put). Personality wise, I don't know how you are so I can't say much but I'd just recommend always try looking up-beat and like if you're having fun.
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Short to Medium sized hair is manly style. Don't have a ponytail. Look at the fav. celebs and follow their style

I dont think i can add anything to that subject, but i have got a question myself about looks. I am nearly 16 now, but it seems like i am more into older girls (and girls my age into older guys anyways), and i would appreciate some tips about looking older/more mature.
I've started working out, facial hair doesn't seem to look good on me yet.
Another problem is that I am pretty small (1,70m dunno what that is in feet), which makes me look younger too. I've kclosed >18 year olds (though that is probably my limit), but I think it would be a lot easier if I started looking more mature. (Also need to stock up on Red clothing, I mainly dress in grey,blue,white and black)

Many thanks

@Envying and rickorollo: You might want to try Kyokushin. When you get some of those roundhouse kicks to your face, you'll get a few scars here and there which will shoot up your sexual attractiveness some more. Plus a few scars can make you look older.

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Thank you guys for all the suggestions and advice about improving my appearance. I'll definitely start working out and bulking up. I know I need to and I've been (leisurely) trying to the past few months, but I could never really get myself to do a lot and gain weight or work out on a regular basis.

I like the way I dress so I don't think I'll be changing that much. I may add a few accessories (watch, necklaces, etc) like you guys suggested, but I'm not going alter the types of clothes I wear because I just don't like anything else.

I really appreciate all feedback. Thanks guys.

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Tudor Bompa's book Serious Strength Training (2nd Ed) is the bible on hypertrophy (gaining lean muscle mass).