| Hey,
I am pretty much as new a PUA as you are, but i've gotten over Approach Anxiety pretty fast, I actually did the exact opposite of what you did,I just went on with solid opinion openers and if the delivery is good enough, they will very likely answer and engage in a conversation.
Try not to use light openers that might be closed with a short answer, asking about the time is something everybody does, so that takes out anything special she might see in you.
Use opinion openers that they cannot ignore, it'll work if it's a topic that girls are keen on, like cheating on partners, jealousy, etc...
Here are some of the openers that I've used successfully multiple times :
BO.TI:"Hey guys, i need a female opinion on something and i was wondering if you could help me with it"
HBs:"Yeah sure okay"
BO.TI:"So this friend who's a student has a long distance relationship with his girlfriend and she recently decided to come study in (insert your location here), the problem is my friend is not willing to give away his freedom, if you know what i mean"
HBs:"haha, yeah, yeah.."
BO.TI:"So my question is, should he help her sign up for his uni and accept his fate or should he recommend another uni and keep his current lifestyle"
Usually at this point the girl(s) would have already figured out the situation, you can then use their answer to bust them and/or ask them what they would do in the same situation.
Another one is : guy meets girl the night before her flight, she'll be coming back in a month,guy really likes her and has the option of going to visit her, thing is guy really wants to have some sort of casual relationship with her, but nothing serious, so what should he do in order for her not to think it's too serious. Go join her or wait until she comes back.
Now here you might notice the stories are a bit long, what i think is that the more details you fit into the story the more hooked the girls will get, and the longer and more elaborate their answers will be, obviously on the one condition that delivery is good (energy, speech speed, believability...). So you can imagine all sorts of scenarios, make them into stories and use them as openers.
Good luck
BO.TI
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