Good advice, but how do i develop those skills so that I know what is going on with her head? I want to connect with women emotionally, so that we can have good chemistry between us.

There's no easy way around this man. You're going to have to do the research and put in the legwork. Pickup is challenging. It takes dedication and hard work.

If you want to emotionally connect with a woman, you are going to have to first learn how to build comfort and establish mutual trust. If you focus solely on comfort and neglect attraction, then you will live in the friend-zone. Before you get an opportunity to even entertain the idea of comfort, you will need to learn how to open. To increase the likelihood that she'll listen to you long enough to even allow you a chance to communicate, you are going to have to learn how to hold positive body language, make eye contact, monitor vocal tonality, and integrate group social dynamics.

Shortcuts don't exist, so quit looking for them. There is a wealth of knowledge amongst the pages of this forum, start digging around.

I don't want to pick up just yet, like hitting on random girls. I would like to flirt and see how things go. I see girls on campus and I want to approach them like in a friendly way. I def. want to build attraction, and connection, but it has to be like in such a way, that she understands that it was a chance, and not by me following her like a creep.

If you think of it like following her like a creep then that is how it will come across. Just go and talk to some girls and stop thinking about it so much.

Learning what's in her head takes time, practice, a keen sense of intuition and running game on women for a long time. I'm still learning. Nobody should ever stop learning. Women evolve daily, we adapt or we fail.

As for the emotional part... how do you get that connection? I don't know. I don't have any fucking idea. The thought of it makes me shudder. I don't give a fuck. I wish I did. I won't ever admit that to my friends or family... but I'm seriously at that point. Until I meet the chick that causes me to go monogamous, I'm slaying everything I consider attractive... I seriously don't care. Sorry. I wish I did, sometimes...

Best of luck.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I think if I connect emotionally with women, and build attraction at the same time, then me getting laid would be easier than w/o having any connection. it goes like 2 people then 1 mind then locking 2 bodies

There's a process step. When I was younger, I didn't know how it went. But now that I'm devoting much time to learn about emotional connections, I can now see the structure. I was just like you when I was younger. I wanted to go to Point G without starting at Point A, then Point B, Point C, Point D, Point E and finally arriving at Point G. Anyway, we were all stupid and hardheaded once before we finally learned how to do things smarter.

Point A - Approach and Open

Point B - Bait for the Girl's Kino (her touching you) through verbal wide rapport techniques. After 3 touches coming from the girl, ping her kino.

Point C - Bait the girl to qualify herself to you and bait for compliance. Thank and accept the girl when she tries to qualify and comply.

Point D - After 10 minutes of verbal and nonverbal wide rapport go into deep rapport with focus on the topic that sparked the girl's eyes. Escalate your kino.

Point E - Anchor her experience with a similar experience from your life.

Point F - Eject or bail out anytime from Point A to Point E when she's at her highest point. This is to bait her to want more of your time and presence. This will also trigger her intrusive thinking mode.

Point G - After a cumulative time of 7 hours or more with your interaction with the girl, the girl will either ask to sleepover your place or confess that she loves you.

The key here (this is for day game, btw) is NOT to overextend your interaction with the girl. Always eject/bail out at the high point. Next, don't show yourself for 1 day, 2 days, 3 days, or one week to the girl. When you show up again, begin where you left off but do the pacing faster so you can devote more time to the highest point where you ejected/bailed out last. At the next high point of the girl's emotions or interest, bail out/eject again.

Repeat and rinse until you get to Point G. I've successfully tested this structure on 3 girls already. In all instances, I have not even completed the kino escalation ladder but I think the process can be fast tracked with a proper kino escalation.

Oh, you'll need to be very skilled at each point in the process step before you can successfully execute Point G.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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Hell Hound, how do I learn more about what you are saying. Sounds good, but I can follow.

Let's just create another thread for the detailed steps out of courtesy to yansaccount's thread. Maybe I'll create one when I have the free time. The details can be quite long point-per-point.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Fair enough and thanks for even replying. I am reading the Game and now I understand there is more than one school. Are these all from mystery method.

You sir are smoked out.

We cannot help. You need professional help.

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Stay High

"I'm savage as fuck, and willing and able and never got clowned cuz when it came around I was down to put my dick on the table"

If you can't help, then do even try helping. You shouldn't even left a reply. No one asked you to. There were many others who gave me hope and positive ideas and I had been applying them almost everyday, and the results are phenomenal. I would encourage you to ignore those threads, in which you can't genuinely help.

honestly man, my advice may be rough or you may love it; not sure. anyways,

my best advice to you is to get off these pua forums, go out there and do something. that's how I did it and I'm loving it.

I used to be here all the time, also like you, hoping I would get an answer to my problems and get them solved somehow by reading these forums everyday, but the only way I really found out how this all works is by going out and testing it (even if it causes you a lot of trouble) .

sorry but I'm not believing what you said about your friends "being too busy". man I'm in dental school, in school from 7 am to 7 pm and only being able to study nights & weekends for exams and I still find time to fit in time for having fun.

the way I'm seeing it is..
A) you wan't to go out..
B) they don't..

so i'm thinking you should either try to convince them to your max. potential that the night will be fun etc. etc. or if not, slowly start talking to different people in your classes who you believe WILL be able to hang at your level.

it's a similar position to the one I was in about a year ago.
I would always want to go out, my friends wouldn't be down.
I hung out with different people and we go out all the time- weekdays and weekends, even if it means only getting 3 hours of sleep for school the next day.

if you don't go out man you'll never be able to spit game & get a girlfriend ma friend..

This entire topic is full of contradictions, you say you know how to be social, then why you can't get invited to a party? You admit you are desperate about getting a gf, then you say you don't need a gf to change the way you feel. Then you talk about how others are getting some action, and you don't, so then you really just want to get laid? You said your life is going nowhere, then you write about being ok with yourself. Sorry but it's impossible to take this topic seriously, make up your mind regarding what you want before asking for any kind of help.